By Dobche - 06/08/2015 11:16 - Bulgaria - Burgas

Today, I had to take a drugs test at work. Later, I found out it was my fiancé's mother who called our hotline. Her reason: I work till 6 pm, her "baby" should eat before that, but he can't cook, so I should quit my job. He is 35. And he thinks I should apologize for upsetting her at dinner. FML
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Dobche 8

OP here: Result - negative. Why I didn't know about the cooking issue - well, it wasn't an issue for the last 4 years when we lived abroad. It seems it is a recent skill loss, like since we came back 3 months ago and found a place to live near his parents.

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wow why are you dating a guy like that? I wouldn't put up with that BS

35 and can't cook? dear lord the fabled grown ass man child is real. also sorry op FYL

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Time to reconsider the wedding if he is going to act like that.

you dont him or her anything like that, he needs to learn

gilligan_isle 6

If he can't or simply doesn't want to cook they make microwaveable meals for a reason. Or there's always crockpot meals I guess...

Run, do not walk. Seriously. This will not end well.

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No, you don't get to pawn all of sexist mens' fault onto women. The pigs are responsible for their behavior and attitudes just like every other adult. Better luck next time.

Okay, time to get your stuff in order and make a CLEAN GETAWAY! If you, don't, your children will be of this same gene cesspool !

ArcheryArtist 20

**** that shit. I would divorce his ass. Women are not meant to be mommies to our spouses. I hate men like that, and its pathetic that his mother treats him like a baby and scolds you for not taking care of a 35 year old man. You need to dump his ass

1dvs_bstd 41

It's still the same principle(sp?), especially seeing as they are engaged.

@#102, you need to chill out with your responses. Everyone in entitled to their opinions as you are, but we do not have to side with yours. You seem extremely full of yourself, cocky, and pretty sexist. I am never one to condone the whole, run and leave as fast as you can thing unless there is a form of abuse or a possibility of it and the mother has done that in a sense here. OP you need to seriously think if this "Boy" is indeed the right one for you. Don't forget, you marry into a family and if the mother did this to you now, think of what she is capable of doing to try and manipulate you for her "Little Baby Boy!" in the future!!! Best of luck to you!!!

Drop him and run! What a poor excuse for a man!