He doesn't sound too wonderful to me.

hahaha i agree definitely

"You gotta pump your loins children!"

imodderated this

just think of it this way you can do it more often to get better at it. as they say practice makes perfect ;)

f your husbands life. try before you buy man

Get a divorce!! Screw his azz!!

Why isn't Dan Savage required reading before marriage? Seriously. Now, OP, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and I'll give you the nice Dan Savage advice he'd give so long as he's not feeling like being an asshole. So what? So you were bad on your wedding night, big ******' deal. You know what you do then? You and your husband COMMUNICATE what you like and if neither of you know what you like, you figure it out together. Mess around, **** around, and don't make vaginal sex the end all because otherwise there's just too much pressure. Play around with mutual masturbation, oral, and whatever else gets you two off (maybe some **** together or some dirty talk, whatever does it for you). And if you two find out you aren't all the sexually compatible (big shocker-- sometimes people just don't click), you compromise. If your wonderful man really is wonderful, you two will figure it out. But you have to communicate and work together. It's not up to just him and it's not up to just you. I'll say it again COUMMUNICATE TOGETHER. I'd also like to state that maybe a man so willing to blame you for his sexual dissatisfaction maybe isn't all you've built him up to be in your mind. I think you need to reassess your relationship and reconsider who you think he is. Perhaps he still is wonderful and all, but reality is reality. Good luck with your marriage, OP, and check out Dan Savage's advice column "Savage Love".

Well, they communicated. He'd just told her that she's the worst he's ever had. It takes a while to recover from this bit of communication. Maybe OP doesn't want to communicate anymore. Maybe she doesn't want to hear more insults. OP, was HE the worst you've ever had? Did you enjoy it with him? If not, he better learn how to best please you, and he better beg you to let him do so. If you didn't like his performance, don't hesitate to point it out to him. Also, if he has the smallest dick you've ever seen, don't hesitate to communicate that to him, as well. Generally it takes at least the honey moon, but you've discovered what a "wonderful" man he is even quicker than that. What an ass, it's the truth they say, honesty without love is cruelty.

That is why it's completely retarded to wait until after marriage...