He could have performance anxiety (a.k.a. stage fright), where he's just so nervous about sex that he can't keep it up. And as with most young men nowadays, he's probably very comfortable jacking it to ****. So he's hoping by peeking at a little skin mag, that'll help. If this is the issue, be supportive. If it's not, then he just isn't that turned on. -Dr. Devils69

you call it "intercourse". geez... call it that if sex is a chore only required for baby-making purposes. you're not doing your part to keep him interested. "30 seconds in"??!! why weren't his eyes and hands on you that early on in the game? what were you looking off at that you didn't notice? you can't just lay back and make him bring it, you gotta bring it too. also, a talk is needed... if a guy would rather look at **** than fondle his girlfriend-- that's pretty sad and he may not even be interested in you anymore. no sense in wasting your time in a boring relationship if you can't even get good sex out of it!

Uhh what the ****. How did you first of all not notice that he was looking at ****? And 30 seconds? I think you have a problem.

maybe he likes u for ur personality

I would dump him because he didn't have the courtesy to tell me that he needs **** magazines to maintain an erection. Warn me beforehand so I can be prepared and say whether I'm comfortable with it or not!

Everybody who thinks the guy has erection problems is a ******* retard, obviously if he gets an erection from watching **** but not from the girl going down on him, then the problem is either the technique or the physical appearance of the girl.

@25 It's embarrassing and can be difficult to talk about. If you need to be "prepared" and think you have the right to say whether or not you are comfortable with it, you are a terrible girlfriend. "Not telling me about his erection problem" is #2 on the worst reasons to dump a guy.

Weirdo. Sounds like he's using you- Get out of that relationship.

No offense, but you may just be doing something either to turn him off or not doing the right thing to turn him on. I'm telling the truth when I say I have the same problem with my girlfriend, she was a virgin and I wasn't, and at first she just needed help because she was really bad and had no idea what to do. Just ask him the reason, maybe he just likes the ****, or maybe you're doing something he doesn't like.

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