By Username - 09/08/2011 21:21 - United States

Spicy
Today, I was asked how far I've gone with a guy. My answer? Eye contact. I'm 19. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 679
You deserved it 8 078

Same thing different taste

Top comments

You held EYE CONTACT with him? YOU *****.

takeapieandrun 9

Don't worry, there are plenty of people in the same situation. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

Comments

kayseelayne 3

I'm 17, and in the same boat. It'll happen for us someday!

Well, that sucks. You've never even hugged a guy? I'd hugged guy friends by the time I was 15.

ohhheyythere91 4

I'm in the exact same situation. You don't want to rush things.

SaintPeasy 3
Jlott94 0

That's so amazing! (: I wish I could say that! That's nothing be be ashamed of & one day I promised you will look back at that & be thankful! (:

So why exactly is there a problem with being 19 and only have had eye contact with a guy. I highly doubt you'd rather not go as far as being irresponsible and getting pregnant or getting an STD. I got married at 17, but if I went any further than just a simple kiss, I would have regretted it to this day if I hadn't been married at the time. One day, if you keep up being a good girl like that, you'll be setting a fantastic example for your future kids and they'll look up to you for that. Don't worry about what others say... they're just trying to put pressure on you if you're looking down on your response. If you don't cross the line past making out, you'll be happier and less regretful, especially for your age. You're young... you have PLENTY of time, no rush.

Isa_fml 20

You have nothing to be ashamed of. You're still very young and someone will eventually come along for you. It's not a race. Just let it happen when it feels right and when you've met a man who's worth what you have to give.