If he dealt with it for months, I'm sure you can deal with it a bit too.

I would like to shake his hand. I wonder how fast he thought of that.

Haha. Paybacks a bitch! Just like your husbands wife! (oh no he dinnint) did you say feeling frisky for the first time in MONTHS?!? WTF?!? I'd be a prick about your lazy and way past due attempt at "feeling me up" too.

Here's a case of 'No Tit for Tat'

Fyl for having a husband who does stupid stuff like that rather than talk to you about what is bothering him.

Yea, if you don't feel like having sex for months you should talk to a doctor. It's really not fair on the husband. Also if you're just making up excuses for that long, there's clearly something wrong in your relationship. Maybe you're not attracted to him anymore, arguing all the time, lack of communication, too busy - whatever. In my marriage we put each other first - not work or our own stubbornness.

this man is my hero :3

You're not giving your husband or yourself the chance. My guess is that your libido is low because the sex isn't all that great. Mw wife and I are going on six years of marriage now. The first year or so sounded a lot like your FML, but substitute weeks with months. The more we honest and open we were with each other, the more our confidence grew, and the better the sex got. Now, we can't keep our hands off each other and are having sex multiple times a week. I don't blame your husband for doing what he did because I did the same exact thing. My wife wasn't communicating with me, and my guess is that you're not being open with your husband.

I'm so happy that this stuff happens and I applaud this guy because, as a friendzoned guy, I hear women conspiring about turning down sex, with some lame excuse like a headache, in order to gain a power hold over their husbands/boyfriends, all the time

I applaud her husband for his response. Sex especially in a marriage is important. Lack of sex can lead to other problems.