As the old saying goes, 45, if you want something done right, do it yourself. It would be kind of weird for a bride to plan the whole bachelorette party herself, but she could tell them what she wants and what she doesn't want. Everyone's different so maybe OP doesn't like men in thongs flapping their dicks in her face, but one of the brides maids do. Nothing wrong with setting some sort of guidelines down for your own party. OP should be enjoying her party and she's the only one who knows what she likes the most.

Like the many say before me, screw them and uninvite them to your wedding. Either that or turn the tables on them and have a party in a few months, invite them then call that morning and say that the party is going on, but they can't come because they screwed you over on your pre-wedding party.

OP anyway, you don't to have your bachelorette party the night before your wedding? What's the point in being exhausted and hangover for the big day? Plus just ban these people from your wedding

It's your party..,you plan it...you are the center of attention...you choose who goes and who doesn't...you cancel it if needed...you do everything down to the nitty gritty...you cannot get uninvited...I think you get the picture...it's all about you you you...

Uninvite those jerks if you could. That would be a good kick for them.

45, she could have still been involved in the planning.

Clearly, it wasn't for YOU.

how did you manage that?

#35 sounds like she knows what she's talking about.

I hope when N if you reply OP that you learned that they maybe didn't really kick you out they just designed a new one that would be a surprise.