By clodius - 20/11/2013 18:25 - United Kingdom - Airdrie
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Hi, OP here. I genuinely didn't think this would be published but here we go. Yes on that night I was extremely drunk and she was drinking heavily too, and I mean heavily. I didn't notice the huge bump because 1) I was shitfaced 2) She hid it extremely well. Anyway after talking to a few people it seems that this woman has been going around for the past 7 months sleeping with people and saying they are the dad. I have nothing wrong with people having sex when they aren't in a relationship but don't try and pin point your baby's dad on some bloke. It is wrong on so many levels.
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You must have been pretty drunk to not notice that. Might want to cut back a little.
C'mon, doesn't anyone feel bad atleast for the kid? It's just so sad to see how a woman can be desperate to provide for her baby...
He is from the UK, so presumably so is the woman. She would get enough money from the government to support her self money-wise, housing-wise and free child care when the kid is a bit older. It's probably that she needs to be provided for emotionally by not having to go through it alone.
Maybe this lady just has a sense of humor. She could of just been joking about it. I'm sure she seen his freaked out face when he noticed the bump and just thought it'd be funny.
I don't get one night stands at all... Maybe if that girl been carful she could of not mess up.
She really wants you to "BE HER BABY'S DADDY!" (Get the reference?) :D
Don't sleep with chicks you don't know. Do you think the ones that put out after a few drinks are quality women?
Little something you might not have known. Women are people. They're not **** toys of various "qualities" based on how hard they are to obtain.
Right, because women are required to avoid sex at all costs or it impacts their "quality". God forbid she might want to go out and enjoy herself of her own volition.
Some people don't like relationships. Some people enjoy one night stands. I'm so ******* done with the **** shaming. GOD FORBID A WOMEN ENJOYS HAVING SEX. Why is it guys can sleep with who ever they want, but the minute a women has sex with someone they're not in a relationship with, they're "easy". Get your ignorant head out of your ass.
An individual has every right to sleep around all they want and behave in whatever manners they see fit as long it doesn’t cross a certain line but this idea that we all have to affirm other people’s shitty choices is wrong. Casually having sex is now considerably more dangerous these days than it has been and one has to be careful particularly when it involves shady situations like sleeping with someone you just met at a bar or someone you don't really know.
A certain line? Who chooses where that line is?
"CONSIDERABLY more dangerous these days than it has been" ? How come ?
#124 Who are you to decide whats right and wrong? Some people cant handle relationships and prefer to just have sex. You really think STD's didnt exist back in the day? Its as dangerous now as it was 100 years ago. Because of the internet, we think issues like this happen a lot more. They dont. We just easily hear about it now. Unless someone is doing something dangerous that directly harms other people (murder, rape, assault, etc) you have absolutely no right to judge other peoples choices.
STD's are much more common now. I used to work in health care and my girlfriend used to volunteer at a a clinic taking care of people that didn't think twice and did the same thing. It is risky behavior that can impact your health and isn't something to be taken lightly as well as people that have been ripped off by the person they just met. I have females friends that were sexually assaulted because they were doing the same stuff and the guy took advantage. It isn't safe.
What is more unsafe : having protected sex with someone you don't know or unprotected sex with your committed partner (that may be cheating on you...)? And sadly, being in a steady relationship or not having sex at all does not protect you from being sexually assaulted : in the majority of the case of sexual assault, the victim knows its agressor... Yes, i agree with you, life is unsafe, and you have to be careful : while having sex, crossing the street, taking your car, cooking in your own appartment, going up and down the stairs, stepping out of your bath, drying your hair, walking in the street, on a ride on public transportation, doing sport, traveling etc... But doing all these "risky" activities does not make you less a "quality" man or woman, if you want to speak like #78.
At least you don't have to worry about accidentally getting her pregnant
At least it's not yours
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boy..i feel sorry for the child she has if she got shit faced while with child..
If she had been drinking heavily, I feel bad for that baby. Fetal alcohol syndrome is serious, not to mention she's probably been shitfaced every other time she's slept around and tried to pull that trick. :/