*definitely Or "definately" if you'd like to go with the more conventional misspelling. I've never seen "defenitely" though, that's a new one. But "definitely" is definitely the correct selling.

Spelling*. How ironic!

Agreed. On the other hand, it's not a wedding without at least one bizarre event, preferably captured on tape forevermore.

Yeah in the toast is one thing; in the ceremony itself. Completely different. Friend should've known better.

I kept mine as light as could be. People attending knew it would be that way too. I hate sitting through stiff ceremonies and wanted it to be a fun thing.

That's yours though. This girls tone indicates she wanted something traditional and more classic. Her best friend of all people should know and respect her wishes.

I don't think OP minded the joke, and apparently neither did anyone else. It sounds like she's more complaining about her dad.

I was wondering why it took so long for someone to say this. I mean, luckily everyone (except the dad) took it well, but damn...you're the PRIEST. I understand you're also the best friend, but save it for the toast. "So yeah it's pretty awkward being the priest AND the best friend. Remember that pause before I asked the groom if he wanted to accept her as his lawfully wedded wife? That because I almost said 'Do you want to bang my friend?'" See how that works? You still get to make the joke without being inappropriate during the vows. Yes, I realize OP is not the priest. But basically the priest could've shown some tact and been more appropriate to the situation.

Thanks, professor oak!

I totally agree #24....very tacky of her Priest/friend.

I agree it was in bad taste Clearly it wasn't a Catholic priest thou as it was a woman. so I wonder which denomination approves of such a thing?

Lutheran among others.

She's not upset with her friend, she is upset with her father because everyone else thought it was funny.

Not the best, but I good one.