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I don't see how this is an fml. If you had told him you love him, or were planning on telling him and he said he was going to propose to his girlfriend, then I could see it. Since you never said anything though, it's not really an fml.
YDI for pretending your friend was Clay Aiken.
Perhaps the OP realized that she had feelings for this friend after he was with this girl that he is now preparing to propose to. If so, maybe she didn't want to risk him leaving his girlfriend if she did tell him how she felt, knowing that if she (the OP) and her friend are meant to be together it would work out. Additionally, if this guy is ready to propose to his girlfriend, then it is possible that he and the OP were never meant to be together, in which case they can continue being friends without the awkwardness of unrequited love.
YDI for not telling him... If you don't want bad something enough to risk losing it, you don't want it bad enough!
Ask him if you can help him practice his wedding night. ;)
that's just stupid. move one. and why the heck did you listen to his recital of proposal to his gf?? people really like to be masochists. Either tell him of you feelings, or not be friends with him, it is impossible to be friends. you'll always want more and will hope more, and it would me unsatisfying relationship..
Sorry, but I don't think I could ever love someone for 9 years unless it was mutual. That takes commitment! Bravo, OP! 9 years wasted :(
geez you should've sucked his dick to get his attention. if you really want him, let him know that he is yours. instead of spending 9 years worrying and waiting and wishing, you should've taken some aggressive course of action. if that hadn't worked, then you could've moved on and forgotten him. ydi for being a pussy. and not the good kind
It's not love, it's infatuation. And I'm getting sick of reading all the "today the man/woman I love got married to my best friend/someone else" FMLs. Grow a pair and speak the f up.
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9 years? its time to move on fyl though
you should tell him how you feel before he marries her...or you'll regret it.