By Anonymous - 07/08/2015 14:27 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my boss at my new job described a client as "retarded". I corrected him with "mentally disabled". He smirked and replied "Whatever. Just explain things to her real slow. After all, she's 'mentally disabled'. And a woman." I need this job so bad that I'll have to just put up with this asshole. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Report it to someone OP, I'm sure that can't be tolerated.

ChloeRattlehead 22

That should not be tolerated at the workplace.

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RusticChick 27

If I were you in that situation, I'd be unemployed. I don't tolerate that shit.

tarlax 11
amileah13 26

Kudos to you for being able to handle that dirtbag. Good luck at the job op

if by political correctness you mean respect for others.....

ihavenolifehaha 16

You could just ignore it you know. No need to get all worked up over something that doesn't even matter.

ihavenolifehaha 16

If my boss thought that being a woman made me somehow stupider than him, or if someone I did business with thought that, I'd have a real problem with that. The way people talk in the workplace (especially to their subordinates) tells you a lot about the kind of person they are. This guy is an asshole.

People just jump to the 'ignore it' comment when the insult has nothing to do with them. Next time you're offended when someone says 'all men' how about you just swallow it and hush?

LadyLuck93 20

"After all, she's mentally disabled. And a woman." Like SERIOUSLY??? Write out a report of him discriminating a disabled person, stuff like this boils my blood. We live in the ******* 21st century, so much for human rights. Regardless he's the boss, he has absolutely no right to speak about anybody in such way & being a sexist piece of shit.

Look at all the butthurt people, ha. OP you deserved it for your smart ass reply to your jerk of a boss. Next time he says something insensitive like that ignore it and keep your opinion to yourself or report it; it will work out better for you in the end.

LadyLuck93 20

You do know there is a fine line difference about being "butthurt", OP was just trying to show him not to insult a disabled person. Thats fkn weak coming from a boss. Unless you allow yourself being treated like shit, go ahead. All I know if I was in that position I would take action & do something about it. Letting someone walk all over you from the start.. hahhh, have fun being a bitch who has no rights & speech.

All I see is a bunch of people freaking out over something that isn't all that serious; so the butthurt comment was for most of the people commenting here. The boss sounds like an ass no doubt but talking back to someone that can fire you is the definition of stupidity. In this case the better choice would have been to keep quite and do her job. And in your example case your action would most likely lead you to being on your bosses shit list and being messed with until you quit or are fired. In some cases its better to just suck it up then go tell on someone like a child especially when the complaint like in OPs example is not a big deal.

Haha it is pretty clear from how she said it that she was being smug (call it whatever you want). And even though retarded can be insulting some bosses are pricks who say a lot of bad stuff, you just have to deal with it or move on.

LadyLuck93 20

#24 Not much of a big deal huh, so its Okay that he gets to use the term retarded & just a women, correct? Brush it off & digest it because its not much of an insult. I highly disagree. There is a limit of being a complete asshole of a boss, clearly he just proved of what a lowlife individual he really is. Yes I agree about sometimes ignoring dumb statements, but this is Discrimination. A different level. Something we absolutely do not tolerate these days. I would quit & not stay at a desk 8hrs a day working for a lunatic.

this is for you on youur definition of stupidity #34 stu·pid·i·ty st(y)o͞oˈpidədē/ noun behavior that shows a lack of good sense or judgment. "I can't believe my own stupidity" synonyms: lack of intelligence, foolishness, denseness, brainlessness, ignorance, dull-wittedness, slow-wittedness, doltishness, slowness; More the quality of being stupid or unintelligent. "a comedy of infantile stupidity" no where does it list telling off your boss or anyone for that matter for being a insensitive prick.

RedPillSucks 31

at what point do you draw the line? what if the boss had describe the person as *FML moderators, give me some leeway, please* hymie, spick, ******, etc...

And if you were so enlightened, you wouldn't be so butthurt about what other people take offense to.

What planet are you from???? Calling someone a retard is never ok. Go learn a book

Seriously 24??? not only is this guy a complete **** stick but so are you for siding with him. Forget reporting this guy or trying to educate and/or enlighten him, he needs a few major bones broken. I'd be meeting this guy in the parking lot. Did I say meeting, I meant dragging him out by his throat to teach him a lesson. Seriously people like this just make the world all the more shitty. Forget the fact that he's your boss and can fire you. Find a new job where people aren't complete ***** that deserve to share a kiss with a freight train. ****.

By definition, retarded and mentally disabled mean the same thing. People just associate a negative connotation with the word retarded without actually understanding the meaning. I'm not defending the boss, because he's clearly an ass, but there's no difference between saying that someone is retarded and mentally disabled.