Youre ******* your pet toad Jesus??

You might want to start planning your exit strategy.

time for a new boyfriend

Get out now while you still can. I promise it will only get worse. I just got out of a 9 year relationship where he thought I was sleeping with everyone at work who's name I mentioned and it only got worse from there.

And you're still dating this guy? If you can't go 15 minutes without talking, there is something wrong.

That's how my ex is!

You should definitely break up with him, sorry OP, but it's the truth. If it was a little bit of jealousy, then there's nothing to worry about, that's actually healthy in a relationship, because it shows the person cares and doesn't want to lose their partner. But this has taken jealousy to new heights. Being accused of cheating because your answer was delayed is just plain paranoia, and add that in with the accusations of you having sex with your pet toad, that just makes psychotic, paranoid, obsessive boyfriend. which leads to.. Not Good.

Don't put up with this kind of shabby treatment. He doesn't deserve to be called your boyfriend if he won't trust you. There are plenty of guys who are stable in the head. Flush this one.

Run, girl, run! He will not get any better, only worse.

You may want to consider dumping this guy like the @$$hole he is. Jealousy doesn't make a suitable substrate for a healthy relationship.