Haha, freak. ;)

Or maybe " better late than never"?

what if they started dating at 16, and didn't want to get married too young?

That's ridiculous. Of course you can love more than one person! There also is no "the one." There's lots of people who you can be very happy with and love till death do you part. It is human nature to crave companionship, and while some people might be happy without a partner, most of us would be very lonely. OP, your bf is crazy. If he wants you to make that sort of commitment, then why the hell doesn't he just marry you? He sounds possessive. Get out of it while you can!

Personally, if I loved someone that much then I'd want them to be happy when I'm gone, not scared that they'd be a horrible person for rejecting my crazy dying wish.

Wow, so does that make everyone who's moved on after a divorce or death a bad person? Your afterlife is going to be filled with a lot of pissed off people.

The best thing about human beings is that we are blessed with the ability to love infinitely.

All #31 is stating is her beliefs. They are her PERSONAL beliefs, not something she thinks everyone should alos engage in. So #35, while you believe there isn't a "the one" for you out there, #31 does, and there's nothing wrong with that. I personally believe the same thing - that there is only one person you'll ever love with your entire heart. You may not believe that, and that's ok. It's not ridiculous, it's a personal choice. If we're all happy with that then there shouldn't be a problem.

Personal beliefs can be wrong too. If/when you someday find yourself with your 2nd "the one" you will just modify your beliefs accordingly... and then youll quickly rationalize the hypocracy.

I think mom and dad are already 2 people you can love whole-heartedly.

It's a little immature for you to just up and say 'no, I'd never be able to be with anyone else again'. Were you one of those kids that swore up and down you were going to be with that person you held hands with once in the seventh grade forever and ever? It might not be the same kind of love but it's always possible to love someone just as much as the person before. Try being alone without any sort of companionship that often comes with a spouse and significant other and I can bet that you'll be changing your tune. Easy for you to say that you'd never want to find someone else when you already have a current fiance that's alive and well.

I wouldn't say immature. I don't really think it's the mature thing to say, "Of course I'll be able to be with someone else again, duh!" It's just a different way of looking at it. And I was pretty much the exact opposite with the seventh grade thing. XD That's how I know I like this way better. I imagine I would need companionship, but only with friends, no more romantic relationships. Just the way I work. But of course you're right, how can I really know when I'm not faced with it? I won't say that in fifty years everything will definitely be the same. But I don't see any problem with feeling certain that you'll never feel the same way about another person again. He = relationship. He + dead = no relationship. Someone else =/= he = no relationship.

Immature isn't the right word (although, in my opinion, I think that view is a little immature). I'd say it's premature. YOU DON'T KNOW if you'd love someone later on, whether or not your current s/o passes away. And if he/she does pass away, most likely yes, because we have the need for companionship. But to say that you'd NEVER want to be with another person again is ridiculous. That's like saying, you'll never get divorced. No one goes into marriage thinking that it'll end. You can't say with 100% certainty that you could never carry out a relationship with someone else in the future. At least be somewhat realistic. Like "I doubt I could ever find someone I'd love as much as my fiance if he passed away."

Apple = good Apple + rotten = no good. Orange =/= Apple = no good?

there is a saying from a song in portuguese that says that love is eternal while it lasts. It's amazing that you have found that kind of love and seriously believes that there is no one else for you. But, if the day comes that you loose the one you love, and you fall for someone else, that promise becomes a burden. Don't let love become a source of anguish.

haha there you go...someone actually thinks smart hahaa you can just lie duhhhh ...fuckk all that bs haha..