By clinictime - 11/04/2012 23:05 - Canada - Okotoks

Today, my ex, who I'm still in love with, emailed me. I thought she changed her mind about us, so I poured my heart out to her. She just wanted to let me know she has chlamydia, and advise me to go to the clinic. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 520
You deserved it 5 044

Same thing different taste

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The real question is: do you still love her now??

omarzrgz 3

Doesn't matter had sex... Wait, it does matter! O:

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Unless she expressly stated she had an interest again, YDI for only thinking about how you feel and seeing only what you want. Probably a major problem in your relationship from the beginning. Obviously she didn't express that and if you could possibly have gotten the clap from her, then she was sleeping with others while she was with you. Did you overlook that as well?

16 - You can't make those assumptions. She could have emailed saying she needed to "tell him something", to which he responded by pouring his heart out, only to get the "actually, I just wanted to tell you I have chlamydia". Or a bunch of other scenarios. OP - At least it's treatable. I found out a guy I was talking to had herpes because he was man enough to let me know. Luckily we never hooked up or anything. On one hand, we can appreciate their honesty. But on the other, we can probably never look at them the same.

Ydi for not reading the message. You set yourself up for heartbreak.

So many things wrong here. First, you're still in love with your ex and just because she emailed you, you assumed she wanted to get back together with you. Also, if she thinks you got chlamydia from her, that indicates to me that you never used protection when having sex, in which case YDI for that reason. Still, FYL if you have it either way. So, yeah, lots of things wrong here and lots of unanswered questions, like why do you still want her if she's an ex, and did you use protection and if not why didn't you, and was she cheating on you...

Another FML without details. Did she cheat while together with you or did you get together for a quickie with her after breaking up? Either way, unprotected sex is not usually a good idea unless you know the partner well enough to decide. Obviously, you didn't. As the other comments state, good thing it is curable. Just make sure you seek medical help right away, also make sure you follow the Doctor's orders exactly. Continue taking your medication until finished, not just until you feel cured. Good luck OP and stay the hell away from that one. Your feelings for her will fade and go away. :)

Take all the time you need, but no doubt its time to move on. Good luck!

hateevryone 14

Well it is STD Awareness month. So now u r aware.

hilary56 0

Well…at least she told you that she had it at all…? :D

skittlesmeep 4

Ouch! Get tested for other sti's at the same time