By btoker - 15/10/2015 16:16 - United States - New York

Today, I opened up to my boyfriend about being sexually abused in the past. He said it explains why I'm "such a bitch" when it comes to personal contact. FML
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btoker 18

Hi guys, OP here. He is my ex now, because I decided that his aggressive undertones means I might be in for a repeat. He is pretty aggressive in general, and this is one of a few examples so its probably best to move on before its too late. I'm 22 years old and was abused at 16, so he doesn't understand how I couldn't be over it by now. I'm currently looking for other places to live because we live together. Thank you all for the positive support, I am going to try to get myself into a better situation as fast as I can.

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Top comments

laurellkawes 31

He's a douchebag and I seriously hope that you dumped him. Sorry for what you went through, OP!!

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haymac 13

What happened to you wasn't your fault, get rid of him

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xpsychocatladyx 15

seems like some one should be single. sorry OP males suck

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laurellkawes 31

He's a douchebag and I seriously hope that you dumped him. Sorry for what you went through, OP!!

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kotaro66 10

That is the kind of guy who would leave you in a heartbeat for a "newer" model

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higgysaurus 18

Some guys are just idiots and don't think before they open their mouth, that does not make them shallow.

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LyricaSilvan 29

So just because he didn't think, that makes judging her and showing no compassion to her situation okay?

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deathshead 19

yes exactly, in fact it should be the norm. (before I get downvoted because someone didnt understand, yes that was sarcasm)

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higgysaurus 18

#31 I did not defend OPs ex, I was simply saying lack of sympathy does not equate to shallowness

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cats54321 19

Wowww that's terrible I'm really sorry.. He must not understand

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haymac 13

What happened to you wasn't your fault, get rid of him

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amileah13 26

He obviously doesn't understand the impact you've had from it. He's a prick, don't listen to him op. I'm sorry for what's happened to you and good luck in the future. Hopefully you can find someone a lot more understanding than him

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janfleury 19

He's an asshat. dump him and find a great therapist. Good luck OP.

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THEDUDE1553566 24

What an asshole. Honestly if you stay with him that's shame on you because I bet you deserve so much better

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Red_Curls1995 28

Get rid of him. Immediately.

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mercyelvira42 23

When I opened up to my boyfriend, who is now my husband, he suggested that we take it slow and didn't rush me into anything. At the time he was a 19 year old with raging hormones. If your boyfriend can't be patient with you and won't accept that you will have sex with him at the times you feel comfortable, I think you should consider leaving him. There are plenty of men out there who will understand and make sure you are comfortable. Good luck, OP.

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