Wow he needs to man up, he has a kid so he better take care if you and the child. You deserve every bit to be treated right

Take money from his account for rent payments...that should do it

Does he know how expensive daycare can get? You would most likely be working your ass off, missing your baby and his/her first milestones for what? To give your hard earned pay check to the daycare. Not to mention most daycares have age requirements and will send your kid home for 48 hours for things like eye boogies, runny noses due to teething, runny diapers. Pretty much everything, so you still will have to leave work, take time off, and pay for the kids daycare spot whether they are there or not. Speaking from experience.

Sounds like a real winner,.. I have a baby and wife and I work and take care if them both gladly. I work hard and yes we juggle things to make it work, but that's what a real man does.

That's terrible. Congratulations on the child, though. That'll be a job of it's own!

Tell him, sure you will, if he's willing to stay home all day, feed the kid, change diapers, do laundry, cook, clean, do groceries, scrub toilets, wipe snotty noses, etc. etc. this is work my sister does for a living, and since it isn't her house or kid, she gets paid $30/hour plus time and a half for overtime beyond an 8 hour workday. She makes more than I do in my office clerk job. You could charge him for services rendered and pay him rent out of that if he isn't the traditionally useful type of husband.

maybe its just me but calling him the "guy I am living with" doesnt make this sound like a healthy relationship in the first place, married or not

Tell him to **** off what an asshole

Give him the baby for a day. Tell him he has to feed it, change it's diapers, put it to sleep, etc. Hopefully that'll change his mind.

ummmm.... how can someone say something like this to thier spouse? that's just plain awful.