well apparently its your fault ..you did not charge him for labour...baby sitting ...nursing in the first place ..if you do then he will come to senses..sorry OP

Uh, I feel like he will emotionally abuse you later on. Get help, please!

Ouch. Sorry OP. That blows.

Demanding? Not ok. Concern over making ends meet with only one parent working? Understandable. It might be that you really can't afford to not work. You have to look at the big picture. What you are qualified for, potential earnings, child care costs which are considerable, housing, etc. Do you have family to help or a neighbor - often cuts cost if they are available but many don't have these options. If you have family who'd help, maybe part time is an option? Many times it doesn't make sense for one partner to work given the high cost of child care. But if only one parent is working, cutting expenses is often necessary. (Hand me downs for clothes from friends plus baby equipment is helpful - never say no because this stuff adds up and kids outgrow things too quickly to make sense paying if you don't have to. What you need to do is work out a plan and put hard numbers and scenarios on the table. My guess is your partner is stressed and resentful. Since both I and my husband changed roles as needed as to who stayed home, we both know exactly how tough it is for either. And what it's like when you both work. You need to work together on this. Good luck!

Did he just hit puberty or what or is he on his period? How could he at that to you after what you have gone through for him?

Um, there is paid maternity leave where you are. Unless it has been months, you are getting that. If not, you are getting unemployment. That's the norm in pretty much every country except the US! Sounds like he's either illogical and grumpy due to lack of sleep and his own changing hormones or you married a real lemon. Might be a great time to take a few weeks and go visit your parents (or his). And then he can explain to them why he said what he did...and the father/father-in-law can set him right.

What an asshole. I'd pack up my new baby and head to my parents or somewhere to not be around him for awhile. What a dick. Good luck.

Lean in, OP!

Tell him to either hire a nanny or tell him that being a mother is your job!!

Recession hit him hard right up his ass. and he is so inconsiderate that he should appericiate that you gave him the biggest happiness. In this world