Now I can bet if OP was a boy who was complaining that a girl didn't want to sex him up, people would be all about saying that boys should treat men more like ladies, and it's not all about sex, with which I agree, but since it's a girl who got rejected by a boy, her life sucks. Maybe he just didn't want to have sex, or have sex at that particular time, OR with that particular person.

There is considerable social pressure for a guy to lose his virginity at a young age, same as there is pressure for a girl to keep her virginity. However some guys do not want to lose their virginity too quickly, and some girls are in a hurry to lose theirs. A guy who turns down the opportunity to lose their virginity faces social stigma, and a girl who loses their virginity too easily also faces social stigma. Please go easy on them. They are both uncomfortable with the social pressures around them, but still make good friends and/or partners.

Just let him make the pizza. It's not like the party ends

Is it possible he wants a lady and not someone who wants to **** while all of his friends are on the other side if the door? Timing and self control might be something to think about... Self respect would be something to look into as well...

I'd like to point out if the roles were reversed here it would be blatantly YDI, but since it was a girl coming onto a guy he must be gay, or have a lil willy. I mean I'd go so far to say this disgust me, there I said it, I am disgusted.

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Total ******

He is gay.. No man would rather make people pizza than be taken over by a girl wanting to take control of a situation

Sounds like OP "ain't all that". Pizza's better than her hole.

maybe not try having your first sexual experience as a couple at a party? make it memorable. have some class.