It's a trap!
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Show it anywayHow does that make him an idiot? If somebody is infertile (which she apparently lied about being) and has a 0% chance of having any STDs (which I guess they both didn't), then why -would- you wear a condom?
I agree, because everyone just loves wearing condoms for no reason. if she said she was infertile there is no reason to be wearing a condom unless one of them had an STD. so stfu and don't be such an idiot.
was the sex worth it?
Op you're a ******* idiot. Only time you don't wrap your tool is when you she isn't with another tool, ex: married to your significant other. Less chance of cheating.
and some people trust their significant other. so really he didn't deserve this at all. not everyone has trust issues and needs proof to believe things they are told.
brought it upon urself unless u see the birthcontrol pills shes lying duh lol so fyi
op shoulda stuck with anal. no need for rubbers and no unexpected offspring. win-win
just bang her butt from now on
I'm thinking that the girlfriend was on birth control, and gambled with the 1 in 1000 odds of becoming pregnant. I think she may have lost too.
this FML worries me cuz my gf also says shes infertile, lol....but yea op didnt need to wrap his, and i dont either
YDI for being born
1word, abortion
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we haven't used condoms since I went on the pill two months in. No biggie, we were both virgins, and neither of us are bastards, so no chance of STIs (except toliet seats or towels or whatever...). Is it normal for people to use condoms all the time when on the pill? I know my friend does, but the expense and hassle really doesn't seem worth it.
fertility has nothing to do w/ having STD! it's like saying that if someone is colorblind s/he can't have pinkeye
Unfortunately, supposedly trustworthy people cheat all the time, so condoms are always a good idea IMO, at least until an engagement or marriage. letmeinplease: I know several couples who use both. It's not too rare, I think.
no, your an idiot for over protecting yourself..
back door, no baby
59: Are you responding to me? Because I didn't say that my husband and I use both. Besides, even if we did, it would be better to overprotect ourselves than have a baby when we're not ready.
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Show it anywayShe might've had endometriosis. I have it, and I believe it's the major cause for women who are having trouble conceiving. But, even though the doctor might've told her she was "infertile," only about 30 to 40 percent of women who have it have infertility issues. I know others who have it and had multiple kids. It all depends. Either way, you should've used at least some type of protection. If it really was endometriosis, your girlfriend should've gone on birth control pills, which help to prevent pregnancy as well as preventing endometriosis from getting worse anyway. That's why I'm on 'em.
1, i agree, but maybe idiot is too harsh... better wear a latex, cuz u dont want that late text, that i think im late text ;D
I don't even know where to begin on all the people who said ydi I'll just settle with saying ur all idiots
No biggie, just abort it.
Even if she wasn't fertile...which we now know isn't true...you should still have still used protection cause one or both of you could have some std y'all don't know about...and I don't think that matters if you're able to conceive or not
hey op AA is a good size. if you need a bf let me know
to #6 you are clearly a dumbass. obviously his gf didnt lie to him about being infertile. the doctors just made a mistake and thought she was. why would she lie about being infertile? and obviously she was infertile for a little bit since they had unprotected sex for 2 months and she JUST got preggers.
@ 18 ur an idiot. infertility does not mean that she is on birth control
dad!
It's not uncommon for doctors to mess up about things like that. We were told that my sister would never have a period due to a birth defect, and wouldn't be able to have kids. Doctor was at least partially wrong, as she started her period a few months ago. We are still told that the defect will prevent her from being able to carry a child, but I don't hold much faith in it, anymore.
ur a dumb ass
so... you blindly trusted your gf of 2 months? seriously? how dumb are you? for all you know she could have STI's as well as 2 months really isnt long enough to know a person.. especially with this kinda things!
Cmyk - It doesn't say how long the OP has known his gf, it only says how long they've been doing it.
#182 you are an idiot
Obviously you didn't read a book.
49 - What does being a bastard and having STIs have to do with each other?? Whether the parents are married or not barely increases the chance of the parents having sexual diseases and many cannot be passed on to the child. If they are, they can be treated with the exception of HIV and AIDS. Which had NOTHING to do with being a bastard child. I can not even begin with how absolutely insulted I am, being a bastard myself. STIs and marriage are very weakly linked. 192 - Thank you so much. So many people forget the option of adoption. I'm lucky enough that my birth mother chose that route.
I neither of them had an std to begin with, they would not contract one magically smh
i love ur icon & ur #69. i am eternally jealous of u
The 10 seconds it takes to put on a condumia definitely not as bad as the 10 years you have to pretend to like soccer.
That's how they trick you.
that IS how they trick you. that's how I got tricked. although it wasn't after two months, it was wayyy over two years and I'm sure she may even believed she was infertile and i'm sure doctors told her she was infertile. Doesn't matter. Trust NO ONE.
I don't think there is a next time...
Did she tell you that to trick you into having unprotected sex, or did she show you the medical evidence to prove it? Because if it was the former it's ydi, I mean I know you're supposed to trust her and all, but unprotected sex can have big consequences (as proven here) so you really should ask for proof of things like this. If she did show you some kind of proof then you're either very lucky or very unlucky. Turns out you've chosen to look at it from the unlucky point of view.
Cute doggies!!!! And I agree with Cinn. Trust is a huge part of making a relationship work, but when it comes to something like one of the partners saying they're infertile/sterile, you still should get actual proof. It's good to have trust, but that's one thing that you DO NOT want to take a chance on.
Why did you believe her to be infertile? Did she say she was? infertile or not you should always use a condom.
Why would you use a condom if she was actually infertile?
ydi for trusting a hoe
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well let's hope you can be a good parent if it comes to it. Good luck Op.
I agree, because everyone just loves wearing condoms for no reason. if she said she was infertile there is no reason to be wearing a condom unless one of them had an STD. so stfu and don't be such an idiot.