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kinda weird with you telling him since he had a girlfriend.. he might have thought you were trying to get with him? Maybe he just felt awkward is all?
While I give you points for having the guts to tell him, what did you really expect? Unloading on him like that puts him in a really weird position, and I really can't blame him for his response. Personally, I think you should have had a bit of respect for him and his girlfriend and kept all of that to yourself. And to the idiot who was like, "he's free game if he isn't married". Um, no...he isn't. A relationship is a relationship regardless of whether or not a ring's involved. Besides, not every believes in Christian marriage. And as for your definition of a homewrecker, even if the boyfriend and girlfriend aren't married, what if they're living together? If she/he had done this with the intention of interfering with the relationship, it would still be homewrecking.
what did you expect to happen?
If he has a girlfriend, you're kind of an idiot for putting him on the spot. And if you really didn't expect anything from him, you wouldn't be posting fml, you'd be happy he didn't just do a vanishing act. Also, he's clearly a good guy for not taking advantage of you. ydi
That guy's a winner haha
That sucks but I sorta know how that feels
Uh his response wasn't what you hoped for obviously but telling someone when they've a gf? baaaad idea... make them feel awkward or rightfully so wonder what the f yer doing telling them then anyhow even if they don't feel that way. telling him or yourself you don't expect anything and just want to clear your chest or what not is lying to yourself at least.
Well if you don't talk to him often - or if you're annoying or fat - it's possible he can barely stand you.
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Wait 2 years and confess when he has a gf? Mm-HM.
Well, you weren't expecting anything from him.... and if he had a girlfriend why bother? if he liked you he would be dating you not her.