Needed to know

By ohwell - 09/06/2009 21:40 - United States

Today, I finally confessed to the guy I've liked for two years. I told him that I've really liked him for a long time, and that I knew he had a girlfriend and I didn't expect anything from him, I just wanted him to know. His response? "Are you done? 'Cause I need to go to the bathroom." FML
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Same thing different taste

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Wait 2 years and confess when he has a gf? Mm-HM.

Well, you weren't expecting anything from him.... and if he had a girlfriend why bother? if he liked you he would be dating you not her.

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Well, when you gotta go...you gotta go

You told him you didn't expect anything and that's what you got. Sorry but YDI.

emmi6 0

Yeah, you got what you expected. And yeah, it can hurt if he didn't respond the way you wanted. But at least you knew nothing was going to happen between the two of you. And if you were hoping something would... well, that's a pretty bad thing to hope, considering he has a girlfriend. But then, it's also possible that you just didn't want to keep it a secret anymore, and that I can understand. Either way, I don't envy you - it must be pretty awkward between the two of you now. Could be worse - at least you know the outcome. I once had really strong feelings for a guy, I told him at a time when we were both single, and his response was "Thank you," after which we both had to leave immediately for class. I spent the whole day wondering what "thank you" was supposed to mean. It ended up meaning nothing. But from that, I know that when you confess your feelings for a guy, it can create an awkward situation if he doesn't feel the same way, or if he's not available, and if he doesn't already have an excuse to get away he'll probably create one. At least he didn't call you a homewrecker.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Take your pick. :)

He had a gf. You shouldn't have meddled.