Been there, done that. I was dating a girl who was moving way too fast, and was being really clingy. Like, not in the nice, naked, shows up unexpected for wild sex kind of ways. Well, that happened too, but that's not part of this story. :) Anyways, one day she just disappears. She doesn't call (which she usually did about 10 times a day). She doesn't answer my calls (but is using one of my cell phones). A few weeks later I hear through the grapevine that I was being too clingy. Hrm. I never did get that cell phone back either. Sometimes it's all for the better. :)

Wow, I can't believe all the stories of universities that don't have real police, even my community college had them. Granted in a more rural area they may not be needed as much, but I hope that have at least a small force on hand just in case. I also hope they are trained to know when they are dealing with an immature girl who is wasting their time to do her dirty work.

I'm not in a rural area, in fact, I'm far from it, in a large city. Unfortunately, they are not trained to know when someone's being a lying bitch. When my ex best friend, as I said before, started terrorizing her ex boyfriend, they eventually got sick of it and sent them to community standards to let someone else deal with it. They're trained to drive around girls at night, crowd control at events, and to patrol campus/give parking tickets.

Do they have better things to do than comply with something that's likely a hoax? Probably. However, campus police (or security guards) have a duty to the students first and foremost, and if a female student tells them her boyfriend is dangerous and she doesn't want to see him anymore, they will meet said boyfriend and make sure that the "dangerous guy" doesn't get very far. On top of that, she's more than welcome to accuse him of abuse, drug dealing, etc....but it's up to her if she wants to press charges, and if they don't actually find drugs on his person or any other evidence regarding his behavior, the best they can do is tell him to go away.

I would but I would feel kinda bad.

I cant believe how hasty everyone is to say she's horrible lol, it's ridiculous, you guys don't even know the story and you don't even know this guy, maybe he's really horrible, lol

Ya I know, and I still tried talking to her for a week after it happened, I finally came to my senses though.

That's an awfully foolish thing to say. It works for some people, not for other, weaker individuals. Often, it has nothing to do with that either. Everyone is different, stop making assumptions; because it is people like you who fail at said relationships, whether close or far. And, for the record, I'm not just talking about romantic ones either, nimrod.