By sal - 19/08/2012 02:48 - United States - Rexburg

Spicy
Today, I had to finally accept that my husband is too large for me. Normally, it'd be a bragging point, except my private parts can't handle it. After several infections brought on after vaginal tearing, I'm having to choose between being in perpetual pain, or giving up my sex life. FML
I agree, your life sucks 54 913
You deserved it 4 052

Same thing different taste

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ByronJess 17

You do realize that the "back one" is tighter than the front one is? Your logic fails.

Just tell him to not go so far deep, if his lung. If he's wide well than your ****** lol

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Too big is way to uncomfortable and alot of the time it seems the guy can't control it efficiently.

You don't need to give up on your sex life, penetration is not the be-all and end-all of sexual activity, it's entirely possible to have a lot of fun and both get off without it. I have a condition that means penetrative sex is impossible for me, and I still have a perfectly enjoyable and active sex life.

leeh425 1
FeroniaMoonscyth 2

I'm morbidly and... not sure what word to use here as "pity" and "sympathy" could seem offensive.. But anyway, curious too

RedPillSucks 31

I hear babies do the trick when it comes to stretching a ****** out. Although, that might not be the best suggestion.

Unless you're torn from 'V' to 'A', in most cases, you'd be wrong. After birth and in the following weeks, everything shrinks back (except any loose skin or fat you equired during the birth) to the way it was beforehand.

Actually the only thing you might have left after birth is a couple stretch marks. You'll lose any weight you put on unless you don't go back to a healthy diet. Same with extra skin. Your skin is like elastic it'll go back to normal in time. Took 40 weeks/9 months to put it all on. It'll take the same amount of time to make it disappear.

#106: Dunno what pregnant women you're talking about. Plenty of women end up with loose skin, big tummies and more (torn vaginas, permanently lengthened vaginas, permanently parted abdominal muscles, stretched uterus, inability to have painless sex for up to a year afterwards, hair loss, loose bladder muscles, random vaginal bleeding, breasts that are longer and flatter -but not larger- than before they were pregnant, rashes and acne, and so on) after giving birth. It doesn't all magically go back into place once the baby is out. Some women even need to have surgery to get their bodies back into shape if certain areas refuse to heal or shrink. It takes a LOT of work to get the body back to the way it was before you were pregnant, and even then, most women will say that their bodies are never the same after they had a baby. Not that it's all horrible, but there are a lot of things doctors tend to...uh..."gloss over" until AFTER a woman has her baby.

SHAMUS_the_WITTY 18

...I get the general feeling that he's black..

Way to graphic what? Don't leave us hanging like that...!

53- .....FML newcomer? If not, the guy tearing his ball sack open the other day should have turned you green. That, was graphic. ;)

1Hannahs 4

I could never give up my sex life. And Big is amazing! I would just make myself think "the pain feels good" and then it'll feel like great rough sex, not painful. :)

yoursucklives 36

you are 16. shut the **** up.

thugzy510 0

Ur 16 talking like that not a bright future for you

You have a promising future in the **** industry. 16 and talking about how you like big dicks. *****.

Hey, don't be too harsh on Hanna - they do say "Different strokes for different folks" afterall.

56- I don't have a problem with you having a Safe sex life (assuming you aren't just spewing verbal crap), and if you Think you enjoy vaginal tearing, well, to each their own I guess. :p I may be wrong but I just don't think your perspective of "Big" and "the pain feels good" is accurate. Saying what you Would do without knowing is easy to do, for now. But I think if you're having someone Tearing your genitals, a simple dismissive thought isn't going to cover that. :p Don't believe me? Go buy a can of Febreze and stuff it in your ******. If that goes well, I'll reconsider changing my statement. ;P Good luck. :p

cassidy0922 6
sumbum95 15

I hate my generation. You shouldn't even be thinking, much less talking about stuff like that. Not saying I'm perfect but I sure as hell have respect for my self. You should try it sometime.

thugzy510 0

Why don't u you just say you agree with her instead of beating around the bush your 17 keep it up you might meet each other somewhere in the near future

OhLohd111 11

You've never actually had sex, have you my dear? Or at least a partner with a rather large appendage.

you are 16 ....shut up about big dicks!!! secondly, I agree w prev commenter - do you even KNOW what you are talking about!?!?? omg

you're 16, you shouldn't have a sex life

RedPillSucks 31

Someone's been reading too much "60 Shades of Grey" if you can equate pain and feels good and sex. Any why the hell should she settle for having her ****** shredded. OPs guy is obviously "doing it wrong". If she tells him he's too big that means he needs to stop trying to be a pile driver, go slow and not so deep. This is not rocket science

there is a BIG difference between rough sex and painful sex. take it from someone who's old enough to have experienced both. not every sexual experience is straight out of 50 shades of grey

fyl..tht sounds painful.. Good luck and ya fyl

dlcj18 2

Man it's not about the size of the car it's the driver that makes the ride smooth

RedPillSucks 31

Or the motor sound you make with your mouth.... What? Is it just me? *slinks away*

Op, you really shouldn't be married or having sex when you're twelve. YDI. ;D

FirebirdF350 7

??? Where does that come from seriously random

dDailydDosage 8

63- I Think Cian is saying that she must be 12 to have the ****** of a 12 year old girl......? On that logic then, what's your advice? Just stick to oral for 6 more years until everything's A-okay downstairs? :p Call me crazy.....but I don't think that's the situation here today.....or the solution.....at least, that's what the voices tell me.....la la la laaaaa la la.....get the big knife..... ;p

Yeah, I do realise of course, that the op is not twelve. I was making a joke. Albeit a rather bad one. For which I apologise for. :L