By sal - 19/08/2012 02:48 - United States - Rexburg

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Today, I had to finally accept that my husband is too large for me. Normally, it'd be a bragging point, except my private parts can't handle it. After several infections brought on after vaginal tearing, I'm having to choose between being in perpetual pain, or giving up my sex life. FML
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ByronJess 17

You do realize that the "back one" is tighter than the front one is? Your logic fails.

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Wiebeski19 5

Just tell him to not go so far deep, if his lung. If he's wide well than your ****** lol

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allplayedout 20

Why didn't you do anything about it before the wedding?

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rosieprice21 2

The best advice I can offer is practice stretching. I'm trying to sound sincere as possible over the internet since I've had to help women with this predicament before. All I can tell you is try purchasing ****** ranging in size with what you can stand now and gradually working your way up to your husband's size. Also, try purchasing a speculum and stretching with that. Be careful though, you don't want to over do it initially because this could cause incontinence. When you aren't stretching make sure you are doing kegel exercises to maintain your muscle strength. There are kegel exercisers you can purchase as well and wear all day (kind of like a tampon) and work your muscles around them. I really hope this helps, this is something you don't want ruining your marriage. Make sure you are being open about this with him so he doesn't open up your drawer one day and see 10 ****** and kegel balls in there wondering if he's even needed.

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tabletoplady 11

Invest in some top quality lubricant and practice stretching with increasingly larger objects. Work your way up. Also, relax. If you're scared about tearing, it's much more likely to happen. Happy hunting!

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zomphoenix 3

I'll say from my stand point it sucks. My wife has the same problem. And yes I know it is the same with us because there is small amounts of bleeding after.

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ImTheAlpha 30

You still have vibrators and ********. Also the 69 position.

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Timmeeh 17

A ****** can ultimately accommodate a baby, and while I know that's far from comfortable, the point is that they stretch quite significantly. Invest in some decent lubricant.

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sports4ever1405 4

I had the same problem with one of my Bfs so we did lube and went slowly and he started with fingering to stretch out just increase the number of fingers if no toys it will help trust me

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mcerin 10

Use extra lubricated condoms, that are large. I found myself with the same problem and the extra lube helped LOTS.

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Ray_of_midnight 22

Have you talked to a doctor? There are some conditions like vaginismus that can make intercourse painful. With vaginismus your PC muscle tenses up to such an extent that vaginal intercourse becomes painful or impossible. With some women it's so bad they can't even insert a tampon. Can you **********? Have you ever tried using a ***** or vibrator that's smaller than your husband, or have you (before marriage, presumably) successfully had intercourse with other men who were smaller?

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