By Anonymous - 07/03/2013 03:14 - United States - Fort Worth

Today, I met a guy in a bar. He was sweet and funny so I asked him out for coffee later. He quickly turned me down, saying that I didn't even meet his first requirement. His first requirement was "looks like a girl." FML
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littlemonster94 15

In my head I'm imagining some guy standing in front of you with a clipboard..... "No! You will not do!" He's not worth your time...

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pussystank 18

Don't worry about him at all no matter how you look like somebody out there will fine you attractive and some will not this just the way it is.

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FelicityWishes 32

What a bummer. Guess he doesn't seem so sweet now! You deserve better, OP!

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brenton490 19

maybe he had one of those things where ugly girls turn hot but you were to hot to look hot so his mind made you ugly? I don't know just brain storming here

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buddy51 23

OP- Is he blind? Or just rude? Or cruel? Drop him like the diseased hurtful list-keeping douche he is and move on!! F-HIS-L for missing a chance to be with you, not yours!!

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gary3768 13

Hell girl try not to worry about it there are a lot of dickheads out there

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jon_watson 12

Everyone seems to be rushing to defend the OP but really, does she? Can't fault someone for having standards, even if a bit harsh on the bluntness.

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BigSexy123 11

What does "looking like a girl" mean? Does it mean following the standards of others even if OP is not happy with it?

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interesting33 36

That was unbelievably rude!! He just wanted to hurt her. It was cruel - that can really blow someone's self-esteem. She probably looks very much like a girl but not the type of girl HE wants: he possibly has this porno image or some sweet busty woman in a pink dress that giggles loudly and makes sandwiches or something! And it takes guts to ask someone out to coffee! I am impressed with you OP - maybe he felt your confidence and self-esteem threatened his "masculinity".

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sugarshane007 20

I thought it was pretty easy to look like a girl, I mean, there are some pretty distinguishable features...

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ellenjasmin 18

Just because he isn't physically attracted to you doesn't mean he's a douche, looks like a woman, etc. physical attraction is the biological reason why people mate or become interested in the first place ... A relationship is largely based on that so you can't blame him for not being interested. However, he could have said it in a much nicer way.

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jon_watson 12

Thank you for also being a reasonable person.

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irateyou 9

I don't think anyone is blaming him for not being interested. If the fml had ended "I asked him out for coffee and he said no." nobody would care. They're blaming him for the way he "declined." Also, if you truly believe that relationships are based largely on physical appearance, it may be time to reevaulate your relationships.

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jon_watson 12

But we don't know that she did look like a girl. So while harsh, his response may have been accurate. Mayhaps she is a an attractive person however was wearing typically non female associated clothes, and he prefers someone in dresses and skirts for example.

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lonerbitch 6

People, maybe she's really tomboy. So **** your opinion. You are ugly bitch. Go get some plastics!

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