You're some geek from high school? Was she even *aware* that you'd "laid eyes on her" on that balcony before? Jesus Christ on toasted rye, that's freaking creepy. How did you ever become old enough to propose to someone? I'd've put my money on you choking to death on paint chips, like, long ago.

Well why would you propose to a girl thats not your girlfriend? My bet is your like that overly weird kid you only see on TV sitcoms, and in extreme cases once in a while in elementary school that, had the lazy eye, and the always runny nose that you wiped on your grandma-knit sweater, peed his pants, ate glue and boogers, chased girls on the playground and gave them creepy little valentines from your slobbery boogery hands, that had crude stick figure pictures of them and you drawn on them in crayon, with her name spelled wrong with backwards letters, and were like "will you be my girlfriend now?" And when she said no you probably threw a worm at her or something. Then you grew up, and continued your obsession and proposed to her without ever asking her out even? is that what happened? I bet it is. And now i bet your returning to your bowl of Cheetos, and that cherry Slurpee, in your moms basement surrounded by countless empty pepsi bottles, and dirtied tube socks, in front of your computer playing WOW, with posters of weird girls in anime costumes you met at comic cons on the wall, until your mom comes down and tells you your PB and J is done and catches you getting friendly with one of said socks. So you pull up your sweat pants, and brush the Cheeto crumbs off your Nuarto t-shirt, go eat with your mom, and get out of the hose maybe.

Dear Anon98WithCake, Please don't ever call anyone stupid again. your = possession. example: Your cat is orange. you're = contraction of the words you and are. example: You're clearly not in a position to pity anyone. Dear thelonelylurker, I believe your name says it all. Not that this man made a good life decision, but really, your (Anon98, note the correct usage) name suggests that you behave in much the same way. Dear JackOLantern, Way to give it the good college try. In the future, try asking her out for coffee first.

You proposed to someone without having been in a relationship with them first? Totally a YDI moment.

stalker!!! god bro you gotta date a girl before you ask for hand in marrige

Im sorry. I bet it hurt But you gotta propose to someone you are already dating.

what the **** were you thinking??? that some girl would marry you before dating?? that's just plain stupid. sorry if you got hurt but it's creepy... learn from that.. first you date, then you propose... god..

werent you dating her? if not why would you ever think she would say yes and if you were dating then im sure she wasnt talking about you :)

She sounds like a dumb bimbo, and from her status I get the feeling you know nothing about her except what you make up in daydreams.

and this is why we don't propose marriage to people we hardly know. If you actually did this... you ARE a geek who has no understanding of how relationships work. You don't just ask some girl to marry you out of the blue! Even couples who have been together for a long time discuss marriage before someone goes and proposes.