By Anonymous - 10/01/2014 23:05 - United States

Today, I realized I willingly support my boyfriend's alcoholism, because the only time he says "I love you" is when he's blind drunk. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 464
You deserved it 17 647

Same thing different taste

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you being an enabler will eventually kill him wow that's a nice selfish true love huh

If the only time he loves you is when he's drunk, you need let him go and find someone who truly cares about you.

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I marked "you deserve it", it being someone better.

They say that when alcohol goes in truth comes out... But still fyl:(

See what happens when you give him an unalcoholic beer....unless he is a liquor/wine fan...

I have been in this situation, no one can tell you what to do with your relationship but you really should find some al anon meetings to go to. I swear they saved my life and my sanity. You deserve a support system of people who will understand and never judge you.

Congrats! You're killing him just so you can hear "I love you". He's probably lying. You need therapy just as much as he does.

defectiveme 7

Let him go... if he can't express his love for you while he's sober, I can't imagine what other kinds of communication issues you might have as a couple. As much as it sucks, people don't change much. There is someone better for you out there somewhere. You deserve true happiness.

Snoopy1 3

He's not worth it leave him he doesn't care about you or love you

Please google "codependency" and realize you are sucking the life out of each other.

Clearly you don't love him back so what are you reaching for?

victorcaulfield 3

You are truly a shallow and sad human being. He needs help and you recognize that but you keep enabling him because your insecure.