Just because someone loses their virginity does not mean they are a ****.

It is disgusting for someone of a 12-14 year age to lose their virginity, yet it happens. Because, trust me, at my old middle school, we had kids being found in the bathroom doing the nasty by our security guards. And most of them were 11 and 12 year olds.

I found that when I lost my virginity I wanted to talk about it to my closest friends as we were all going through the same things at nearly the same time. It was a bit of a big deal to me at the time so it was something I wanted to disscuss. Not brag as such but at least talk about it. Thats what best mates are there for lol. However as I have got older I no longer disscuss anything about my sex life unless I am talking to my boyfriend (obviously lol) I think that no matter what age you are when you lose your virginity talking about it with close friends its part of the learning experience as it is a bit of a life landmark.

Who said anything about the girl being a ****? Yeah, she shouldn't be "bragging" that she lost her virginity, but discussing it I can understand. Losing it is an important part of everyone's life, you want to discuss it with somebody, whether it's the person you lost it to, your closest friend, your mom or dad, brother or sister. everyone has someone they want to tell it to.

I think it's ridiculous how so many people judge others by the age they lost their virginity. I was 14 when I had sex for the first time! I had been with the guy for over a year and stayed with him for 3 more after we had sex. I never got pregnant, I never got an STD because my parents taught me well. They always made it clear that they'd prefer for me not to have sex with my boyfriend yet, but if I decided to do so they wanted me to do it the safe way. I was on birth control and we used condoms. After that I had another boyfriend for 2 years and then I met my husband...and because I became allergic to latex and the latex-free ones used to be expensive we eventually stopped using condoms...after we got tested for common STDs... So just because I had sex early doesn't mean I'm a **** or irresponsible or disgusting. If people want to wait until marriage that's great and they most likely won't regret it. But they should also understand that there's people who have sex before marriage and don't regret it! And it goes the other way too...people who didn't wait until marriage should respect the ones that do... And I'm just gonna assume that by "bragging" OP meant they told their friend about having sex and how great it felt...because that's what I did. I made sure no-one could hear me though...lol...

Haha I think that's one place that it's safe to say they won't look. And Plexico, do you comment every FML? I see you all over the ******* place.

I contribute when I think I might have a funny up my sleeve. I think I comment to about half of the FML's. Work is a little slow now, but things will be picking up soon so I will probably start dialing it down. Love me (or hate me) while you've got the chance!

I think you are wrong and many parents could be wrong about at what age their teen is ready for sex because they are protective and scared for their child. You have to make decisions for yourself to have any chance at love and happiness; advice can help but you can't just follow orders. Sex is going to change a person and bring at least some type of hardship and conflict into a person's life regardless of the age. I do think there is such a thing as having sex too young but I also think there is NO such a thing as the "right" age to have sex. Life is messy and complicated; relationships crumble. The best laid plans can fall apart. Adults regret things they do just like teens do. If you're being safe and using your best judgment, no one should blame you for partaking in life's joys--even though they, like everything in life, bring sorrows with them.

But the problem is, as a teen, you are most heavily influenced by your hormones, not your real judgement. I agree that there isn't really a solid "right" age for sex, though, which is why I said there are other factors.

If you drop that soap in the shower and bend over to pick it up, POOF! It disappears!

hahaha better than the fml