you are an idiot

Her love is on the same level as Gods love. Do as I saw or suffer!... Because I love you.

Her mom loving her would be if she tried to talk to her daughter about it. Not poking holes in Op's protection.

Thats awful advice. I'm pretty teen pregnancy or a STD doesn't feel good either.

thank you so much for this comment :) I agree with you in discouraging teens from having sex I think a 17 or 18 year old should still be discouraged because sometimes they might not be mature enough and are just having sex 'to feel cool' because others are having sex... Waiting to find the right person to share it with feels amazing :) I am a Christian and I'd love to say wait til marriage but all I can say is wait until you are at least 18 and are possitive you love the person you'd have sex with and wait until you know you can support a baby if that's what comes from it.

Completely agree. It's true that kids under 16/17 shouldn't have sex- for many reasons, of course, and even then it's sometimes advisable to wait, right? But by the time they're that age, they're almost young adults. They can drive, hold a job, even move out of the house. And have sex. And kids under that age should preferably wait. =| However, the way her mother went about it probably did more harm than good. I'm 14, and when I was 13 my mother sat me down and had "The Talk". It was a way of telling me her expectations and ways to do it safely. At the least, it was a way to meet with me on the same page and have a civil discussion. She says I shouldn't until I'm legally of age, as many good parents suggest. Her way was a responsible and thoughtful way to tell me how she felt. Right? However, rendering condoms unusable by sticking a jesus pin through them is not the way to go through things. I know #1's suggestion- and the ones that followed- are all funny, but I would recommend sitting her down and having a serious discussion. Returning an inappropriate approach with a less-than-serious one will only result in more trouble.

In Denmark (and probably Sweden and Norway, too), 15 is the age of consent, but even so it's not unusual to have sex before that. Interesting to see how much that differs around the globe.

what about 16?

Sweden is a great place. Lowest teen pregnancy rates, highest population of atheists. I hope to live there one day.

I'm pretty sure most of the people commenting were saying she's a bitch because of how she went about it... Not because she was try to discourage her daughter from having sex.

But I mean condom or no condom, teens still usually do it and take the risk. So it was wrong of her mother. Even though birth control is a sin to some religions.

In any cases it's a very stupid and ****** up idea... If you break all your daughter's condoms she might end up having sex using a broken one or none at all, getting her pregnant. From that point of view it's actually worse if she's very young because ya know 15 and pregnant and that kind of stuff. This mom is ****** up and should die.

That's in my country #303

I agree 100%.