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ask him for a ride
Hide his keys. Call a locksmith/car repair place and see if they can help out. Remind him that a car left un-started for months can result in a dead battery and other fun things. Start billing him for "leasing" your car. Get a specially bred key-sniffing weasel to find them. There are options!
If reasoning with him won't work an extreme option is going to a locksmith who deals with vehicles. if you prove ownership they'll be able to exchange the mechanism for your key and give you a new key. Then... there's reporting the theft to the police.
Parent of the week award
Sounds like my dad. Recently, he refused to let me drive 15 minutes to work because it was foggy out. It wasn't even thick fog, but he was certain that it would be worse by the time I got off. It wasn't, and his paranoia made me pretty late for work. He wouldn't let me even get a driver's license until the end of last August because circumstances made it literally impossible for him and my mom to constantly chauffeur me anymore. I'm 22. And this is barely scratching the surface of how controlling he and my mom can be (but him especially). Your username leads me to believe that your dad has been doing shit like this for a long time. I don't know how old you are, but as soon as you can, just start doing as many adult milestones as possible without asking permission, because he likely won't change. That's what I had to do. My parents don't like it, but I'm not doing anything wrong and there's no reason why I shouldn't be doing these things at my age. In fact, if they had let me do certain things on time, I'd be a much more established adult by now, like most of my friends are. Parents like that are convinced that they need to protect you forever because you're their baby, and they will not listen to reason. They will likely never completely trust you. Your attempts to assert your independence will be met with resistance and attempts to put you in your place for a good part of your adult life, until they either get the message or kick off. They are coming from a place of love, but their actions are actually harming you, not helping. The fact that your dad hid your keys because he is worried about you is not sweet. It is controlling. He does not trust you to handle winter weather while driving, and even if he gives other excuses ("I trust you but not all the other drivers", "it's dangerous", etc.) he is still saying he doesn't trust you to deal with whatever happens on the road. He went behind your back instead of having a conversation about his fears, which shows that he doesn't respect you and his boundaries are skewed. And it's still dangerous to walk that far in that weather, let alone doing it all the time. Hopefully you can show him that his concerns are valid but his actions are unnecessary (as in, not having a screaming match, but doing things to SHOW him you're mature, and having a calm discussion). I'm sure you know this already, but don't be surprised if he still doesn't listen. I hope you get your keys back (or at least get another form of transportation), and I hope you're able to set boundaries with your dad. What he's doing isn't cool. Best of luck!
I ended up doing that. My mom was teaching me in her car; the issue was that they didn't want to let me get my license and drive by myself. I ended up eventually realizing I could do it myself without my dad's approval, but I held off for so long because I was trying to work WITH him instead of against him. He also fooled me into thinking the insurance would skyrocket, and I didn't want to do anything that would cost them (and me) tons of money without warning. I eventually called the insurance company myself and found out it would actually go up about $25 a month, if that, and after that he didn't have a leg to stand on. I do admit that part of why it took so long was my fault because I just put it off, but less than a year before I got it, my dad was still saying he didn't think I was ready to drive by myself (I'd been driving for over a year at that point). So a lot of it was him putting doubts in my head and otherwise manipulating me into waiting. He's been doing this my whole life because he's terrified of letting me grow up because he's convinced I'll get hurt if he doesn't monitor everything I do. I finally realized that I could do things without his approval last year when I started at my current school, where I started getting counseling. My amazing counselor brought to my attention that I am an adult and I can do things without my parents' approval. To be perfectly honest, it came as quite a shock to me that it was a good thing for me to occasionally go against my parents. TL;DR - It took me a long time to figure out I could do things by myself without parental approval, but when I did, I accepted responsibility and I didn't waste much time getting adult shit done.
Just take his vehicle
"Okay dad, guess who gets to drive me 10 miles there, 10 miles back home, 10 miles back and then another 10 home! And gas is on you since this is your rule!"
Hide his keys, then! Better yet, just take his car, assuming he has one!
Just use a bus or uber or even a taxi...
Not everywhere has those options.
Nh doesnt have many buses and uber/taxi will more than likely cost more than he makes.
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You should reason with him. That sounds quite a bit more dangerous than driving in the snow.
Make him walk 10 miles in the snow and cold one day and see how he likes it.