Have the bartender in on it it will give a different result...

the bartender was right, but there was also nothing wrong with what OP and hubby were doing. and playing out a fantasy is not rape.

Play out whatever fantasies you wish, that's fine, but it's not fair to involve people who haven't agreed to participate in the fantasy too. Acting out your rape fantasy in a public setting is involving anyone who's watching it.

Just out of curiosity, the role playing was... date rape?

What are you, serious? If you want to roleplay date rape that's whatever, but if you do that in public and someone sees you slip someone a drink, it had better go that way. What is this I don't even.

I've got to say, that sounds fun, but you really shouldn't take that outside of the house. Because if you do, and you live around careful people, then you're pretty much screwed. Not knowing what the situation was, I'd say they did the right thing.

Why the hell would you role-play that in the first place?

Even if he explained himself, why should the bar believe him. Even if you backed him up, it would be insane of them to take the risk. What if you thought he was roleplaying and they let him carry on, and it turned out that it was a double bluff and he actually WAS spiking you? It's hardly unheard of for spouses to abuse their other halves. He might have had consent for the role-play but if he'd actually been spiking you then who knows what could have happened that you hadn't agreed to, and the bar would have a liability.

Why would you bother actually putting a pill in the drink? Doesn't make sense to me. It's role playing, why not just PRETEND that he had roofied you if that's what you're into? Not only does it look super ******* sketchy, but I don't know why you would want to take unnecessary medication, or mix drugs. I get that alcohol and aspirin aren't the most powerful or dangerous, but still. Personally, I can't take any pill with alcohol - makes me nauseous!

Lol funny