hope you got a pre nup for the devorce thats soon to come... happy trails! :)

Abstinence is stupid - and you just found out why.

There's nothing wrong with waiting - abstinence is not stupid, it's a personal choice. Not talking about sex before you enter into a lifelong commitment with someone, however, is possibly the dumbest thing you could ever do, ever, and I almost want to click YDI for that alone. If she has some kind of problem with or fear of it, then it should have come out a long time before you got married. If you can't communicate, you will never have a successful relationship.

Get it annulled if that is still an option. Clearly she has a problem with sleeping with you, otherwise it would have happened before the marriage. You don't want to be stuck with that the rest of your life, do you? Get out now before it drags on any longer. Lots of other women out there.

=[ that's so sad.

That sucks man. I hope u didn't force her

Seriously your life is ******, and probably will be for quite some time, even if you do get out of this failure of a relationship (which you should) due to the ass-backwards philosophy you prescribe to. I don't have the heart to click YDI, because this bullshit was most likely drilled into your head from birth. Religious indoctrination is horribly abusive, and leaves you completely socially incompetent. Get out of that marriage and that "community" of fire-and-brimstone, sex-hating nutcases NOW.

It can take years of psychotherapy to undo the damage of religious indoctrination. Best of luck to you, and remember, always look before you leap.

Maybe OP is just REALLY ugly.

HA! HA! I guess you'll be waiting another day! HA