Don't be this guy!

By clueless - This FML is from back in 2014 but it's good stuff - United States - Irvine

Today, I realized that when a girl asks what your plans are for Valentine's Day and you say, "Nothing" and she responds with, "Oh, I don't have any plans either", it means she wants you to take her out. It took me three months to figure that out. FML
I agree, your life sucks 37 905
You deserved it 59 652

Same thing different taste

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That sucks! Well I'd ask her out to dinner all the same

its a bit obvious that she wanted to go out with you, try to make it better maby buy her a bouquet of flowers?

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Gives you nine months to prepare for if something like that happens again next year!

Valentines in May then... Better late than never.

idrownedmyfish7 6

That happened to me once. Looking back on it, it was fairly obvious she came down with a case of bad boy fever. Unfortunately, she was in a relationship by the time it occurred to me.

Am I the only one who hates it when girls do that sort of thing? She's interested, yet instead of making the first move, she instead hints at you to do it instead.

I would like to know why he deserves it, when ever i have a girl say that to me, she doesn't want to do any thing with me.

Too bad you missed that chapter in "The Many Reasons Women Give the Silent Treatment: Hidden messages, and what they really mean".

JCal585 8

What else should she have said? No I don't have plans, please take me out? YDI..

She could have said how she felt. She could have said, "oh, I dont have plans either, would you like to have dinner with me?" or "hey, I like you, wanna go out?" or SOMETHING. Not everyone can tell what others are thinking when they don't say it. Some people just communicate better when people say what they mean. Much less confusion and drama that way.