Shaven, not furred please. It looks so much better when its shaven. Same goes for men ofcourse, we've gotta shave our faces, we should shave our armpits (them bushes just look sick! counts for both men and women!) and shave the pubic area or trim it good (makes the soldier look even longer). I say no thanks to hairy people.

I won't argue with all the people here about whether or not women should shave, but I do have some advice for the OP. While I shave frequently for my boyfriend, I don't mind if he sees me hairy because I'm comfortable with him. I shave every time right before I go to the gyno because I feel ashamed of myself if I don't. This isn't because I find the gyno more exciting than my boyfriend...but rather because I feel uncomfortable there. It's my way of coping with a stressful situation. I wouldn't accuse your fiancee of doing something wrong, otherwise she'll probably just be more upset about having to see the gyno.

when it comes to sexual stuff we (men) will do most anything asked of us if we know it turns our woman on. how come when we ask for favors it is like pulling teeth and suddenly we are the bad guy?

ok wtf, ok pink. I never said a girl has to shave. Im informing u, most guys like when a girl shaves. i prefer a clean workspace. Heres the deal. Ive been told woman enjoy oral sex. Omg isnt that funny, i like going down on girls. But i find pubes to be gross and just in the way, so i prefer they are shaved away. So, if u want oral, u gotta clean up. So here is what im saying, i will please u, if u make it enjoyable for me too. end of story. Ok now if u go out on a date, u shouldnt let the guy say were ur going cause its his money. he is taking u out to have a good time, so let him know if u dont wanna do something, ull have better dates. most people like when others make plans, so thats why us guys do it, to make u happy. Ill think of things i think we both will like, thats how it works. i cant believe u said u let guys choose cause its their money. Seriously, speak up. And WTF is all this, "tell her what to do" crap? I said most girls like when guys make decisions. all that means is girls dont like guys who are always asking what the girl wants to do. clearly there are always things u ask a girl, but im talking about the normal things. lets try to use our heads and be realistic. everything i say u all r taking to the extreme.

You're overreacting. She needs to be clean to go to the gyno and you're throwing a fit like a baby because she is taking care of herself and not giving into your wants.

if you like that then why don't you date 10 year olds? pervy douchebag.

i think that women that shave down there look like kids. but i understand wanting to trim. besides... i think when women let their fuzz get too long, it starts becoming easy for bodily fluids to get trapped in there, then becoming somewhat unhygenic. though i suppose that's still better than shaving... do a woman. not a girl.

148 - I don't understand why she even -needs- to be clean to go to a gynecologist. They are the last people in the world that are going to care if you are shaven or not.

Omg it just hit me, this is a FML. She feels more comfortable shaved, her shaving cause a doctor was gonna see it shows that. Yet she doesnt care what she looks like for her fiance. I feel bad for the OP once he is married. Just imagine how bad itll be then. Run dude.

Kasha, I think you're awesome for embracing your body.