#45 - so you have a hairy penis or are you just that clumsy? besides the ******** actually has more nerve endings than the penis - so i think women might be a little more afraid of nicks and cuts.

does she shave at all for you, or at least trim?

I've shaved there since it started growing in and have never had a problem. I don't use any sort of shaving cream or anything either, and really never get painful or itchy regrowth. It takes like 30 seconds in the shower to do. I dunno i feel bad for girls that find it to be painful. For me it's like shaving my armpits, completely necessary and must be done every time I take a shower. Also I've had my guy shaved and i've had him just be trimmed, and I prefer trimmed.

organisedchaos-- Same applies in the reversal, you're forgetting. And since when do guys shave their pits/legs on a regular basis? I guess you'd prefer an actual bitch than a woman who has her own thoughts/feelings and acts on them? Guess that says a lot about your mom. :s And yea. Guys have penises therfore they are high and might and live by their own golden rule of "Do what I say, not what I do-- Bitch." it's people like you why we have feminists ;)

well, think of it this way maybe it just means that she is comfortable and feels herself with you. but being a girl myself, the gyno can be a bit nerve-racking, so she probably just didn't want to seem hairy and gross when she went. i don't know, really. but i wouldn't take it too personally :)

personally, i don't find shaving down there remotely annoying or tiresome. it takes like, what, 10 mins tops? nd if you use conditioner it takes less. however i do feel that if a woman (or man) doesn't wanna shave, that's totally her prerogative and, seriously, if you're engaged to her you should know how often she shaves, so i really don't get why it's an FML. plus, you should take comfort in knowing that she can be herself around you and not worry about you judging her (which she obviously something she worries about with others).

I meant the posts by fml12351 and IPreferBlondes. I don't get all this "bitches needa shave fo me" stuff. It's pretentious. That's all.

Oh yea. The numbers are hoppin around neh? They did that when i was trying to post so I just started calling people by their names and let them figure it out.

I think people are making the mistake of thinking that they speak for their entire gender. I know plenty of guys who don't care about the presence of pubic hair when going down on a girl, just as I'm aware that to some it's a problem. The issue of doing nice things for your partner goes both ways, too: if you argue that your partner should shave because you like it, it can also be argued that you should let them stay natural because they want to and it would be uncomfortable for them if they did shave. It's all about respecting people's wants and needs. If pubic hair is a deal-breaker, then find someone who wants to shave. If it's not a deal-breaker, then learn to live with it. Nobody's "perfect". One of my old boyfriends grew a goatee that I wasn't keen on and sometimes it would give me stubble-rash when we kissed, but you know what? He really liked his beard, and I respected his decision. Not a deal-breaker.

I don't shave -anything- and I'm a really happy fuzzy lady, and my fiance is equally fuzzy and equally happy! I don't know why so many women decide that it's cleaner/prettier/more convenient/more sexy/whatever for them to shave their vulvas, much less their armpits and legs, but I guess that's a social thing that I am just totally lost on. Have fun with your obsessive shaving rituals, ladies, I hope that effort gets you everything you ever dreamed of!