Horny devil

By jimboxo - 26/04/2009 19:15 - United States

Spicy
Today, my fiancée got out of the shower, completely shaved. I went over to her, wrapped her in a hug and asked her what the occasion was. She pulled away and said that she had a gyno appointment. My fiancée will clean up for the gyno, but not for me. FML
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Same thing different taste

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grazynaanka 0

It's uncomfortable to go to the gyno in the first place. When you're a girl, there are always so many things you worry about. Cleaning herself down there, might help ease her worries a bit. And so what if she doesn't clean up for you. It means she's comfortable being around you and being herself.

Shaving that area is time-consuming and results in painful and itchy regrowth whatever the razor and however much shaving gel and aftercare you use. Waxing is just as painful. She probably shaved herself for the gyno because she was afraid of being judged, as our culture these days is obsessed with removing natural pubic hair, even though gynos have seen it all. It's just scary showing that to a stranger. Take it as a compliment that she's not afraid of being judged like that by you. :) Pubic hair is a symbol of maturity and can be very sexy. Each person should do with theirs what's most comfortable, be it nothing, trimming, removing some, or removing it entirely.

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153 - Thanks so much! I like your comments earlier, it just warms me when I find like-minded people on here, and elsewhere online and in real life, that aren't freaked out by their own body hair. :)

Oh organisedchaos, aren't you a charmer.

wtf are you talking about, men don't shave their faces daily. have you ever seen a person with a beard or mustache? well, shaving would eliminate those things, in case you didn't know. and a far as all that is concerned, some women really like facial hair and prefer it over being clean-shaven. so don't try to throw that in the mix like it is some terrible, obligatory hassle that men have to go through every day, boo hoo

adelaide_evening 0

organisedchaos: I don't live in Adelaide, I live in the states. Adelaide Evening sounds like "Had a late evening". It's a play on words. And who are you to talk about sounding like an idiot when your grammar and spelling are atrocious and you misspelled organized? If a girl wants to shave and is fine with shaving, that's perfectly fine. I know some people prefer to be that way, and more power to them. However, if a girl doesn't want to shave and her guy has a problem with that so he resorts to cheating on her and not contributing to a marriage, it seems like the problem is with him, not the woman's hairy ******. And where do I come off sounding like an idiot? I like to think my arguments are well-supported. You, sir, resort to gross exaggerations and unsupported arguments. So who's the idiot? Hmmm.....

IPreferBlondes 0

Thank you organizedchaos. I didnt want to call Missfortune out on her IQ. Adelaide. If a guy truly hates pubic hair on his girl. Wouldnt she shave it for him? If a woman isnt willing to do that small thing for her relationship, she clearly doesnt care enough about him that she should get married. So if ur girl wont shave for u, its really just a sign she isnt the right person. So yes the problem maybe be slightly with him, but it tells u what ur girl will do for u. O and he called u an idiot because your the one who cant seem to use logic and try to understand anything. We are not talking about childbirth, and that happens only a couples itmes and he doesnt have to look. Now, u saying a marriage failing would be over pubic hair? Now lets try to have some intelligence.

adelaide_evening 0

I was simply referring to how he said a marriage would fail if a woman didn't shave her pubic hairs. And if the guy really loved the girl, wouldn't he take her as she is and not maker her change, especially if shaving down there was a painful, laborious task? If a man isn't willing to do a small thing for his relationship, he clearly doesn't care enough about her, and they shouldn't get married. And actually, pissing and ******** during childbirth happens a lot more than a "couple of times". I'm willing to accept there are more sides to this, and some people want/like shaved pubic hair, but taking the stance of "NO! If their partner wants them to shave, they have to shave" is kind of immature.

#110 - Organisedchaos: Dude, how the **** does "I'm my own woman" = "Controlling" ???? *really hopes I just misread that* o_0 This is something that is totally down to the individual - if a person doesn't wanna shave, they shouldn't have to, and certainly not to make things easier for someone else. This in particular annoys me coming off the heels of that "treadmill" FML, where so many guys were raging on the topic - saying a relationship is about "sacrifices" and how women should make an extra attempt to be in the mood when their man is to keep him happy, but the guys *here* won't deal with a bit of hair to make their woman happy. What bugs me more is that basically what some guys are saying here could be perceived/summed up as "I don't care how uncomfortable it makes her, I won't go down there unless it's shaved because *I'm* uncomfortable." See what I did there? I realise that is simplifying it greatly, but meh. I also grant you that my feelings on the topic are influenced by *my* preference - I feel weird when girls are shaved. Like, obviously, if *she* feels better that way then I suck it up and deal, but frankly, it makes them look about 12 years old and weirds me out a little right from the get go.

kel_riv 0

This is such an odd debate, because most couples have some sort of agreement for this sort of thing. Usually a girl who doesn't shave won't end up with a guy who demands her be completely clean, and vice-versa. A girl who's willing to compromise might do so every once in a while, and her significant other probably appreciates it, though doesn't demand it. There's no need arguing what YOU prefer, what YOUR standards are, and how YOU want to be treated when you're dating somebody. Don't speak for an entire gender/population of people. Just find someone who agrees with you on the matter and date them. Point being: Live and let live.

#48 Crabs can also live in other places, such as the eyelashes. Are eyelashes dirty?