Marriage counseling.

Lol second time coming across this one! And once again I say! Divorce her!

why are you wasting time on FML? Get washing!

that's so dumb. when I'm married I WANT to have sex with my husband. not make him work for it

Reverse it! Tell her that she needs to have sex with you for you to do the dishes, laundrey, ect. I think it's fair that she gets one point for having sex and that the amount if points should be roughly 2,300,005 1/2. She will never get it cus even if she somehow gets to that number, tell her that she has to match it exactly, not go over. MWAHAHAHA

wow lol what bull shit.

haha just do the laundry 115 times, and you got it bro. jkjk that ******* sucks . put her in her place.

be the man and take control show her you wear the pants in the relatioship

srcew this! (no pun intented) just go for a drive and you will feel better.

Withholding sex, and making the man do something special to earn it, is a classing power position play. The wife most likely is pissed she actually has to give up something, so she is using this "point system" as an excuse. The best way to end this is not by cheating, but by making her accountable for all the unnecessary things she spends your money on, if it is just your money, or for everything she does and doesn't tell you. That will end that stuff very fast..... Doing things like chores is not a bad thing.. withholding marital relations is... and no... while she can say "not tonight", she is not allowed to forbid it unless there is a doctor's reason... and I do not see that here.