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By reallyson? - 12/01/2015 05:28 - United States - South Hadley

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Today, I got undressed in front of my boyfriend for the first time. His reaction? "You're chubbier than I expected." FML
I agree, your life sucks 46 529
You deserved it 4 758

Same thing different taste

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If you want to lose weight, drop 150 pounds by dropping him to the curb.

I don't know why voicing that comment seemed like a good idea to him... Maybe he was kidding? Stills sucks though, FYL

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serslybro 20

The best way to take that is that you wear your weight well. Which means you know how to dress appropriately unlike so many others. Most guys don't understand that what they're saying can be hurtful. My suggestion would be to explain to him why that wasn't the best thing to say and give him one more chance. If he says anything else along those lines I would be done...

Drop him. I cannot stand men who treat their 'girlfriend' this way. Ain't nobody got time for that.

If a guy you're with doesn't immediately want to put his mouth on every inch of you just get your stuff and go.

Your life isn't f@cked, just your boyfriend's attitude. Find someone who appreciates you.

You're are most likely a great weight and he is just a douchebag. in my opinion, he shouldn't get to have a girlfriend if he puts people down like that.

Your reaction should have been "GTFO and don't come back."

See, the thing is that people in the comments automatically assumed that he now sees your weight or appearance as negative just because he called you chubby. I don't think he's a douchebag- I think he was just speaking his mind. Gosh, people are acting like he threatened to dump you, or something. In a mature relationship, just because you recognize eachother's flaws doesn't mean you don't accept them. So what if he thinks you are a bit chubby? He might not have meant it in a malicious way. Does he still think you are beautiful? Does he still want to be with you? I assume you could change in front of him because you two are comfortable around each other, which means one can express what they want so long as they are respectful about it and I think he was. Chubby isn't necessarily a bad thing. Don't worry too much on it, OP.

And also, for all of you saying that she should tell him he has a small penis- what, it's a mortal sin for him to say the word chubby to her, but it's not at all mean for her to say something like that to him? Egalitarianism, people.