lol #20 is an idiot. sex shouldn't be the most important thing happening within the next month. congrats on finding the one. but that is harsh.

I clicked both, because it does suck, but you probably should have been taking better care of yourself. You should talk to the doctor about maybe getting meds to lower it. If your wife loves you, she will understand though :)

#22-- what's the point of clicking both? That's the same as not voting at all. To the OP: that sucks, dude. You should see if you can get on some meds to lower your BP or something.

so you have to choose between an intamit relation ship with you wife or being able to live... that sucks

yeah so.... I should do it anyway

do it anyway.

I'd do it anyway, you shouldn't let that ruin your wedding night and honey moon, just lay off it when you get back home I guess.

Bleh, that does suck bigtime. Sorry, man. And #17 is an ass.

You can lower your blood pressure by eating tons of varied vegetables, whole foods (not white), and make sure that the sodium content in the things you buy are equal or lower to the calories. :> It's sodium that mostly affects high blood pressure! Watch the salt you eat, and don't go to many restaurants as they add tons of salt as well! Instead of the doctor, go and talk to a nutritonist instead. Blood pressure is affected by diet, after all. In a week or two your blood pressure will be much lower and you can have sex again :DDb

And how did u get so high blood pressure? Arent u too fat? If thats the reason, then YDI