By Anonymous - 06/05/2015 17:44 - United States - Riverside

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Today, I got a text from a guy I hooked up with. I'm not really interested in him, so I rushed out of his house last night. He was letting me know I left my wallet at his house, and if I want it, I'll have to let him take me to dinner. FML
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HappyItalian 38

Not saying he's right or wrong for using her wallet as an excuse to go on a date with her, but she used him. She wasn't interested in him, so instead she used him for sex and probably toyed with his emotions, which is a very wrong thing to do.

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DaRito 25

Why did you hook up with him if you aren't interested?

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mergeterge 24

Why is everyone asking this question? Can she not decide that she doesn't like him the day after? She has a right to change her mind, you know...

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B00K_L0V3R93 31

OP don't listen to the other hateful commentators. You are completely in the right taking charge of your life and sexuality as you see fit. The guy sounds creepy blackmailing you into a date, FYL indeed. That being said I can see how he might have interpreted things incorrectly (you leaving your purse as a sign of interest, as in you two had to see each again) although this does not excuse forcing a date out of you. However, the date may be an opportunity to ends things for good. You can meet face to face and you can tell him that you are simply not interested in pursuing things further. And on another note. I doubt any of the commentators would feel the same if the roles were reversed. I thought we are living in the 21st century where women had the freedom to choose sexual partners and no one has a right to judge her for it.

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weswheatley 14

I'm pretty sure they'd feel the same if the roles were reversed, except instead of saying "bitch" they'd say "dick" or "douche"

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iwadasn 32

Nobody has the right to deceive someone else in order to get sex from them. If it was the guy who'd pretended to be interested in her in order to sleep with her and then snuck out of the house afterwards, everyone would be saying he deserved it. Why should she be treated any differently just because she's a woman? Maybe this will teach her to be honest with people instead of using them. If she wants to just have casual hook-ups, she should be clear about that from the start and find a guy who's looking for that too.

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harrypotter322 18

Definitely disagree, 73. Commenters would be calling the girl a "psycho" and telling the guy to run while he can.

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mergeterge 24

This comment should have more likes.

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interesting33 36

We do not know that she was using him at all - she said she left and didn't want more to do with him. He might not have felt the same way but you would think a hook up could be interpreted to mean just that. Maybe they should have talked about it if they hadn't already, but people are assuming she lied and said she wanted a relationship or something. I don't see that written in the fml, and yeah he seemed to think they were going further but why i that OP's fault?

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Zebediabolical 39

It's entirely possible he assumed she left it to give him a reason to call her. And a full name to google to make sure she's not nuts. This is pretty much exactly the setup from dozens of RomComs and Sitcoms.

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shadowshalf 8

You're complaining? Really? He's being nice enough to give you your wallet whilist buying you dinner? Free food bitch

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Axel5238 29

He should give the wallet back anyway. Getting the wallet back shouldn't hinge on going out to dinner with someone she decided she doesn't have interest in them. It's a shady thing to do, if anything he should've just offered to mail it back.

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fpants2010 18

Why have sex with someone you are uninterested in? I feel bad for the guy.

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brvnnx 18

YDI, for sleeping with a guy you're not interested in.

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Clevelandians 17

Really? This guy is clearly just trying to be romantic. He's not actually going to keep the wallet if she says no. He's trying to be smooth. Clearly he thinks she's interested. The guy has done nothing wrong. She, on the other hand should just be straight up with him. This isn't an FML.

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dcam13 19

um blackmail? weird technique to get someone to like you. but on the other hand you led him on by sleeping with him knowing you weren't interested. that's pretty shitty too.

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interesting33 36

Most one-night stands are not people looking for a relationship I think. So the idea is you sleep with someone but you aren't interested in them romantically. And that should be clear when it is someone you just met. If it was a date then that is different.

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HappyItalian 38

Not saying he's right or wrong for using her wallet as an excuse to go on a date with her, but she used him. She wasn't interested in him, so instead she used him for sex and probably toyed with his emotions, which is a very wrong thing to do.

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