By Anonymous - 08/04/2015 10:52 - United States - Oceanside

Today, I got disappointed when I realized that I had to share a bed with my husband because we had company over. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Aren't you supposed to share a bed with him? I thought that was one of the reasons to get married.

Why is it totally on the husband? Maybe she's the one with issues.

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I assume there is a snoring and/or bed wetting idsie

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quit being a coward and divorce him.

For what? Obviously you've jumped to conclusions about what's wrong.

This is one of those FML's that needs a follow up. Everyone is assuming that their marriage sucks, but what if he snores, or she rolls around a lot in her sleep? Maybe they just don't like sharing a bed because one of them has restless leg syndrome or something along those lines. They could have a perfectly healthy marriage, but don't share a bed for something that isn't really a big deal. It could be because they have problems, or it could be a complete non issue so we shouldn't just jump to conclusions and say they should just divorce without knowing the situation at all

#gottasleepwiththepigtonight #lifeisrough #marriedstatus

am I missing something here??? why would I ever get married to sleep in the next room or on a couch.. i don't understand ppl sometimes

Because some people are a pain to sleep next to, and a crappy night sleep (or weeks of crappy sleep) is really exhausting and will most likely take a toll on your relationship. Some people really can't function well after just a single crappy night's sleep and will be snappy and bitchy all day, so using separate beds might be the healthiest thing for the relationship and both partners.

People get married for reasons besides being physically close to each other at night...or so I hope.

You guys don't know what's going on in their life. Maybe they're on completely opposite sleeping schedules and one of them is a light sleeper. Either way OP hope everything is alright on there.

I'm confused, don't you normal share a bed with your husband?

funny how everyone assumes you have marriage problems just cause you don't sleep in the same bed , it's more common then people may think for couples to have seperate beds or even rooms sleep is important , that being said if it is marriage problems then probably time to work on things or call it quits !

My wife and I also rarely sleep in the same bed. Both of us were single for a long time before we married and despite many years of being happily married, we do sleep better in our own beds. I feel for you OP.

But would you be disappointed if you *had* to share a bed with her?

I can remember once yes when I knew I needed a good night's sleep the next day.

Well would you be happy if you weren't going to get sleep?

let's be positive here. Maybe it's just snoring?