Tell him next time he wants you to go over to use his damn hand.

112 - that's a stupid statement. That's like saying all blondes are stupid, o wait...

TL:DR Why not both?

You should know better than that!!! It's breaking bad for Christ's sake

so....why are you dating him??

170, if you can't see that there's a lot more to a relationship than sex, then I feel bad for you. Physical aspects will only keep a relationship together for so long. Emotional aspects are what makes a relationship strong and lasting.

your boyfriend sounds like an asshat, sorry honey but next time he wants "fun" he can play with himself :)

Next time he wants sex tell him he has a hand and can use that. There's nothing wrong with postponing sex or denying it to you, but he was awfully rude about it.

177 Go back and READ my comment again, and when you comprehend it properly, get back to me. I literally JUST said that sex is not ALL a relationship is about, but that it IS *usually* a component of a *healthy* happy relationship. There is a LOT more to a relationship than sex.... But don't try and tell me sex is not a major player. Because it is. If you aren't having good sex, you aren't going to want it. If the sex isn't good, it often stems from poor communication between the two individuals and the dissatisfied partner not speaking up. So even when it's concerning sex, it's deeper than just sexuality, For example... Instead of helping her man and showing him what she likes and what feels good, a girl may just fake it to get it over with. There is a lot more going on there than just the sexual aspect of it. Communicate well, have good sex, and your body will release lots of feel-goods... Good sex can keep things such as depression and anxiety at bay. You bond closer, you feel happier and energized, and you can relax easier because your body releases a ton of endorphins and other things that make you feel great. Regular doses of this is great for a person's physical and mental well-being. Have you ever heard someone say "she needs a good lay" about a woman who is really uptight and irritable? There is some science behind that! There is nothing wrong with saying that sex is a part of a healthy relationship, and that is FAR from saying that a relationship is all about sex.

True, but he doesn't have to be a bitch about it.