By Anonymous - 28/10/2015 04:10 - Australia - Brisbane

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Today, I tried to hold my new boyfriend's hand while on a date. He let go quickly though, letting me know that we aren't at "that stage" of the relationship yet. We've been having sex for two weeks now. FML
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teentee401 36

Hate to be THAT person on FML, but I would seriously consider leaving that relationship. If he's ******* you but can't be bothered to hold your hand in public, that's a bit of a red flag. Then again you could always talk to him, but this just seems a bit suspect to me. EDIT: And to the comments before me, using sex as a weapon is immature.

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jude_iscariot 7

Honestly, I am seeing someone right now and we're having sex, but I wouldn't likely hold her hand in public, that's just not my style. I held my ex's hand constantly, but I'm just not there with this woman. It really is a personal thing. Like i said above, you have to talk to him about it.

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TheJawsman 18

Tell him if he can't hold your hand in public, his hand will be the only hand touching his **** in private.

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thatonetribute 31

If he doesn't take pride in his relationship with you, you shouldn't bother with him. What a prick.

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valley626 14

Find a cute boy and hold their hand in public instead. :)

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bad_boyfriend 10

Having sex with someone does not inherently signal a certain point in a relationship, assuming it does is no ones fault but your own. Why don't you try having an adult conversation instead of just ******* and assuming.

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soulreaper12296 28

Why is everyone saying OP should break up with him? Even though he's fine with having sex, he could be shy/nervous about showing affection in public. I did when I had a girlfriend; if it was just us I would hold her hand, no problem at all. But then at school around everyone else I felt shy about it.

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lvg_fml 10

Just talk to him Ask him what he meant exactly. If your relationship is hood otherwise it's worth a conversation

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Richard6036 13

The issue is girls think they need to put out to have a boyfriend. And what happens is guys get what they want so there's nothing special left in the relationship I'm not saying save it for marriage, or abstain from sex but before you have sex make sure of the relationship is founded on integrity and honesty and then the relationship will have a strong foundation. Again I'm sorry you had just been used by a man who bases relationships on sex and nothing more.

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DoomedGemini 37

Or girls like to have sex? Obviously some people DO try to use sex to make someone stay, but some people also just like sex..

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MonstreBelle 29

Right? When will these slutty heathens learn that a man's dick is so powerful that it changes the very essence of a woman's being from the moment she allows it in her?

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