By Rodrigeuz26 - 22/01/2010 07:26 - United States

Today, I was sitting in IHOP with my girlfriend of six months when she brought in her son of three years she had neglected to tell me about, and asked 'Does this change things?' FML
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You deserved it 4 490

Same thing different taste

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shmikey 0

how did she keep that secret for 6 months?

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B_Ez88 0

must not be a very good mother if u haven't noticed

X_Life_Sucks_X 0

If you don't mind children, it really shouldn't bother you. Although, She probably should have mentioned that she had a child before that point.

boatkicker 4

It should ABSOLUTELY change things. The deal breaker should not be that that she has a kid. It should be that she hid it from you for so long. I can understanding waiting until a few weeks into the relationship to let you know she was a mom or early in the relationship forgetting that she hadn't told you yet, but no more than a month. After six months there is no way it was any sort of accident that you didn't know. She was intentionally hiding it, and that right there is the problem.

She really should have told you, for six months, its really wrong that she didn't tell you. However, I'm guessing that she kept it from you because most people ran if they found out she had a kid. Maybe she was hoping you would get to know her, and if you cared for her then the kid wouldn't be a deal breaker.

The thing about that is if someone ran because she mentioned her kid, they're not going to really be there for them anyways. Getting to know someone, and springing her kid on them? It's immature and just plain wrong. Yeah it might make some of the people who would normally run away stay for a little longer, but if they respected themselves, they wouldn't continue to date someone who lied about something so big.

If she couldn't be honest about having a kid initially then you should dump her.

SMS0144 0

correct response would be, yes, gonna need a kid menu now

CJ090 0

heres an apple iHop he whole building inside and out is white except for the furniture which is chrome the building is completely square the servers are dressed in all black and dance around while multicolor laser lights flash behind them the food is said to be better than any food on the planet but really tastes horrible