By homewrecker - 01/08/2009 13:44 - United States

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Today, I woke up from a night of crazy drunken sex with a guy I had met at a friends 23rd birthday party. The lights had been off when we had stumbled in to his house the night before. When I opened my eyes today, the first thing I saw was his family picture, complete with his wife and son. FML
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lmmmr 0

Don't have sex with people you don't know.

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kthxdie 0

At least you didn't wake up to his wife and kids in person.

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kawa_fml 0

mmm...I wouldn't say it's your fault, you just wanted a wild night, not to be caught up in infidelity. Although telling his wife about it would be a really honorable thing to do, really, it's not any of your business...unless you get pregnant. FYL, really, if that ends up being the case.

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grungecat 0

There is no possible way she didn't deserve this and any STD she now has.

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howardms 0

Geez, some of the people on this site are ruthless. So, she slept with someone she didn't know on accident because she was drunk. I guess you can say its HER fault for getting drunk in the first place, but COME ON. So saying that it is her fault that she may have helped a man cheat on his wife is very sad. She didn't know. Maybe, just maybe SOME of the blame could be placed on him???? (if he was indeed married) It takes two to tango... I don't think one night of crazy stranger sex makes someone a *****. Now if she had let ten guys run a train on her... then you could talk. #12 needs to stop being judgemental.

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measishouldbe 17

All of the blame she be on him. Hes the one that willingly cheated without disclosing the fact that he was married. OP most likely wouldn't have done it if she knew he was married. Casual sex happens... Can't condemn her for it.

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GlobalB 0

16, re read what I said. I'm not judging the fact that she had a random sex partner. As long as she used protection, it's her choice, and I'm not going to judge it. I don't think it makes her a **** at all. Blame can be put on the guy for potentially cheating on his wife, but she did nothing wrong. And she doesn't regret the sex, (hence noting that it was "crazy" sex),; she regrets the guy she had it with because he ended up having a family, which does make her stupid for assuming the guy is completely innocent when she probably met him while already being inebriated, but it still doesn't make her a ****. There is nothing wrong with casual sex, and these things happen. As long as it doesn't become a habit then it's not a terrible, awful act she should be crucified for. Stop being such a judgemental idiot.

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JarJarBinks_fml 0

Lol? You are equally judgemental for saying that she isn't, hypocrite. There's a difference between casual sex and sleeping with someone the first night you meet them. Especially when it can result in something like destroying a home. And seeing as you don't think she is a ****, could you define your view on what one is?

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lmmmr 0

Posting stories on FML opens your decisions to the judgment of the readers. Don't tell people not to judge, the OP asked for it.

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justanotherhuman 21

...annnnnnnnd Immmr comes to the absolute, and irrefutable truth regarding fmylife.com. Posting is *seeking* opinions/judgments. We're here to offer either/both.

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airbornerose 0

Are you kidding me? First off, it is most definitely possible for someone to lose control and coherent thoughts with alcohol. She did not destroy his marriage; he did. Assuming she is being honest, she did not know about his wife and kid. Had she known, I doubt she would have gotten involved, since she has said her life is ******. He should not have been at the party, if he was going to act the way he did. I do not agree that you should be labeled a "home wrecker" if you had no idea. Parties and drunken sex should be for unattached people - he was in the wrong place, and that's on him. Yes, it could have been avoided, had she not had drunken sex, so she doesn't get any sympathy for what the guy ended up being like. However, she does not deserve to be labeled as the home wrecker that helped him cheat.

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lexiBRo 0

I agree.. OP is not a homewrecker. She had no idea she was hooking up with a married man. If their marriage falls apart the blame lies 100% on him. I also don't think there is anything wrong with an adult having sex with whoever they want, whenever they want. That is her emotional and physical health she is ******* with no one else's.

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xClarkGable 0

#20, there was no reason to point out number 12 when it seems that we all have the same OPINION about her. Not judging, having an opinion. Don't get drunk. Don't sleep with guys. The end.

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Bullshet 0

Why does anyone that has casual sex with people start bitching when stuff like this happens to them? Don't do it if you can't handle the consequences.

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Bullshet 0

Yeah she deserved it even if she was drunk. Nobody forced her to drink.

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Leopard68231 0

Like you've never drank anything? Your just jealous of her amazing sex life

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Bullshet 0

Yeah. I'm jealous of her "amazing" sex that she probably can barely remember, and that she had with a married man. /sarcasm Drunken sex isn't what I'd call much of a sex life to begin with.

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plexico 3

You're lucky it was just a PICTURE of the wife! Here in Texas, if the first thing you saw was the ACTUAL wife, the second thing you'd see is the barrel of her gun and the last thing you'd see in your life is a muzzle flash. Plus, she'd get away with it!

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w01ph13 0

I moderated this one! Sucks for you. How did that end up?

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texasgirl123 0

how did it end up? well, i tracked down his wife (through the friend whose birthday it was) and i told her everything. i showed her the texts she had been sending me. and i apologized profoundly on being an ignorant drunk girl. she told me this wasn't the first time he had done that and she had the divorce papers ready. she was just waiting to graduate college this fall before she went through with it. btw everyone, a condom was used, so chill with the pregnancy/std crap.

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