By Username - 14/04/2011 06:59

Today, my boyfriend punched a hole in a door. This is on top of the broken handle, cracked sink top, dented fridge, and other holes in the wall he has also made. We are 4 months into our year lease. I don't think we are getting our $720 deposit back. FML
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kinga08 0

I think you have more serious things to worry about than getting back a $720 deposit. You have an extremely violent boyfriend that can't control his anger. I'd be more concerned about that.

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sourgirl101 28

Tick tock tick tock- Soon it will be you he comes after. Learn the signs. He obviously can't control his anger.

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soican111 1

abuser - plain and simple. Get out now.

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CanuckPopcicle 2

yikes! how long till he starts hitting you? if he's not going to anger management, and refuses to, GET OUT!

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LinTurk 4

That kind of behavior is gross. Even if you believe he would never hit you, why the hell would you want to live with a guy that throws tantrums like a two year old?

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TraceCase_ 19

Couldn't have said it better. I like my stuff.

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ReynshineCutting 10

To all you people saying "he will hit you", there's NO way to know if he will ever turn violent against her. NOT ALL GUYS THAT BREAK SHIT HIT WOMEN!!!!!!!!! I get that some do but not ALL of them do. We don't know the whole story here. He could already be in therapy or working on it on his own. My fiancé has anger issues. He use to hit and break things all the time. He realized it was a problem and hasn't hit anything in over a YEAR. Sometimes he'll still throw stuff that he knows won't cause any damage. He has never ONCE come close to putting a hand on me in the several years we've been together. He would rather die than hurt me. His best friend breaks shit when he's pissed too and has never put a hand on a woman. My best friend's husband occasionally hits stuff but has never put a hand on her. I am so sick of people saying all violent guys beat women. There's more to OPs story than we know, so STOP telling her to dump him.

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monnanon 13

I do understand where you are coming from but the fact is a violent person has a greater chance of turning on anyone in their way. Regardless of him hitting OP chances are she is frightened when he goes into a rage and throws shit. I don't think she should leave him without trying to work out his anger issues but if he refuses help or he goes for help and nothing changes it might be better for her to get out of a situation where violence is present. I think you are very lucky that your fiancé never hit you despite his violence and Im glad he was able to sort himself out however I think you are your friend are in a very lucky minority.

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TheDrifter 23

Oddly that sounds like the same story I heard from a neighbor I drove to the hospital at Christmas time after she "fell down the stairs" while her boyfriend was drunk and smashing bottles on the lawn.

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ReynshineCutting 10

OP the holes in the wall and the handle you guys can fix and the rental company/landlord won't charge you. The fridge, door, and sink though I don't think you can do anything about (unless you buy a new door). Depending on your leasing company, you might not even be deducted for the fridge or the sink since they're still functional. That's how our leasing company works anyway.

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ydur 0

as a dude with a current broken finger, I can't say u should stop pissing your man off. I know it may seem like anger issues but some women have a tendency to push buttons

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fizzpoplady 3

WTF does your finger have to do with this? What, your girl pissed you off so you poked her really hard and broke it? You're stupid.

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LuciDaniels 8

he should try some anger management classes

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