By Username - 14/04/2011 06:59

Today, my boyfriend punched a hole in a door. This is on top of the broken handle, cracked sink top, dented fridge, and other holes in the wall he has also made. We are 4 months into our year lease. I don't think we are getting our $720 deposit back. FML
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kinga08 0

I think you have more serious things to worry about than getting back a $720 deposit. You have an extremely violent boyfriend that can't control his anger. I'd be more concerned about that.

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sourgirl101 28

Tick tock tick tock- Soon it will be you he comes after. Learn the signs. He obviously can't control his anger.

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Residence_fml 4

Why was he punching holes into stuff again? And you worry about the lease money? I'm not sure what to say OP

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captainmaharet 1

You're next. Run for the hills.

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iLoveMyGuitarra 0

"HULK SMASH AND BASH!"

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paras0mnia 3

Ha haa, Don't make me angry, you won't like me when I'm angry... something like that, I forget :P

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ifiFaLL 1

lolol. high five to ur bf for being awesome

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kkay_soccergirl 0

^ well we know your a abuser

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SisyphereanTask 2

Golly OP your bf sounds like a very mellow, emotionally stable guy. Definitely a keeper! /sarcasm One of you needs to go, unfortunately, it's probably gonna have to be you. Suck up the lost money and GTFO.

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IsBitchBetter 1

You will be next. You'll make all the excuses for him, like he'll never do it again, but he loves you, etc. I think you are in denial that he has anger issues. Normal men do not punch holes in walls. Quit making excuses and get out now!

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ReynshineCutting 10

Yay more stereotyping!

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Lisa89 3

Whether he will ever hit OP doesn't really matter [obviously it matter but I mean if he never hits her, that IS still an issue here]. The fact is he is damaging and destroying things that do not belong to him in his hissy fits. That in itself shows a total lack of respect towards the landlord and OP [she paid the deposit and rent for the place]. He has a destructive anger problem plain and simple. So whether OP is hit or not, I still think it sounds the best thing to leave. No man or woman should ever be with someone who is has an anger management or manipulation problem that they are not dealing with in a constructive and productive way. OR better still, just not be with anyone who has an anger management problem at all.

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Lisa89 3

*I edited the above comment, but it hasn't come up. Whether he hits OP does matter I mean. But even if he doesn't ever hit her, there is still an issue here. Stereoyping or not; it sounds bad for OP.

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ReynshineCutting 10

Yes because people with anger management issues don't deserve love. I totally forgot about that! For all we know OPs boyfriend is getting help but she couldn't fit that in the FML. One would think if they're living together they're in a serious loving relationship. Unless he's cheating or beating, you try and work it out before calling it quits.

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laden_swallow09 34

222 - We stereotype because there's absolutely NO telling if he will turn on her or not. "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." Unless the boyfriend is in therapy and is responding to professional help, it is a very safe assumption that he will hurt her, unintentionally or otherwise. Abusers not striking their significant others is the exception, not the rule, and he IS an abuser. I'm only thankful that he abuses only property… so far.

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autumnjk13 0

What a douchebaggg.

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tortured_heart27 0

u need to leave him immediately. ive done the angry bf...and let me tell you now ur quite lucky if its just walls and other object hes hitting. u need to leave before he hits you.

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zenti 2

Seriously? It's been four months and he's managed to break a lot of stuff in a fit of rage, and you're still putting up with it? These are warning signs! Get out while you can and don't even think about making excuses for him. It bothers me that people like him can still manage to get girlfriends.

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