Get him back by masturbating right back at him.

As long as he still gives you a good seeing to on a regular basis then I'm not sure what the problem is. Sometimes you just want to get off without the obligation of having to please someone else. Next time he pulls that stunt try gong down on him just don't expect him to reciprocate right then.

What a jerk

The same thing happened to me with my ex. (Hence him being my ex.) However, it's nothing YOU are doing wrong. It's your boyfriend's problem. If it bothers you that much, you need to accept that you aren't meant to be together. It's sad, but the best thing for you. Contrary to what people will tell you, sexual compatibility DOES matter. A LOT.

Are you that bad in bed

Yeah sometimes it's just about quickie stress relief for the guy and not that he doesn't want you. But if it's all the time, I'd reevaluate that relationship

if you want something done right...

Why don't you give him a hand?

based on op's reaction id say she doesnt "want" to do it as often as he'd like. a guy gets tired of waiting for his gf to fall asleep to rock his own socks. just sayin

So much for dating a handyman! Is his name Ray McKigney?