Yeah, I am not even a little bit ashamed of thinking a morbidly orbese person should lose weight.

Hit send too soon. I'm not shallow. There are a lot of plump people in my life who I love and truly don't care how they look. Shallow people like yourself will try to convince the obese people that they are beautiful regardless of their weight. Because my concern is deeper, I want these people to be healthy. I've never been a skinny girl. I've been curvy since I was in single digits. I became overweight after my second kid. I can personally attest to the fact that losing weight is hard. I also didn't let a little extra weight skewer my self-esteem because I was proud of what my body had done. But I was never under the delusion that it was okay to be heavy. You are truly doing a disservice to people by saying that. Encouraging people to be healthy is the more loving act.

To whom is this comment directed? This is why there's a reply button.

Taylah, some girls are insecure enough about themselves that they think showing off their boobs will attract men, despite the fact that men (the good ones, at least) are more interested in a woman's mind than what's under her sweater.

yea thats true i care about the girls inside and mind, but if there is no physical attraction i wouldnt wanna be with her, lets face it im not ******* her brain or personality imma smash her body.. so yesss i agree brain and personality are insanely important and a good body too.. your not gonna sleep with fat guys and if you say you would if he had an amazing personality your lying straight thru your teeth..

Jerz, I had a feeling you were a kid based on your response. There's nothing inherently wrong with that attitude while you're young, but keep in mind that you don't marry a pair of ****. Looks fade and boobs sag with time, but a good personality lasts forever. Well, until senility strikes.

im 20 not a kid, i merely state the facts, yeaaa personality is most important, and mind, but if they have that and you arent physically attracted your relationship wont go further than just friends, cuz be real your not gonna have sex with someone you dont find hot, attractive, gorgeous, w.e.. yeaaa in time your body gets gross haha, but you gotta maintain it and keep it in good shape, your motivation should be to keep yourself in amazing shape for your significant other, if i do it i want someone that puts the same effort into it.. sooo yea looks are very important to me as well, at least im honest and the girl im with always knows she gorgeous since my standards are thru the roof