wtf??

Tell him that he "couldn't handle all of this anyways" while waving your hands around your body, also that's the risk you take when you wait until marriage.

Am I the only one who's first thought was that maybe op's husband is gay and was trying to deny it to himself? Then he saw OP in all her splendor and realized he can't go through with it? ...it's entirely possible I'm reading too much into this...

The guy just sounds freaked out, probably needs a slap in the face and a stiff drink...

Exactly why you should never get married to someone you haven't had sex with.

I literally don't understand how to take this other than 1. OP's chest is the Ark of the Covenant or 2. OP's husband is obviously gay.

YDI for waiting till marriage

Look, people, waiting so long for sex is a big deal! There's little chance the man is gay and more that the scope of what he was about to discover was just too overwhelming all of a sudden. When you wait for something for so long you have a lot of expectations and some people panic at the thought of not living up to them! Poor guy, give him a few days to breathe and take it slow, there are other things you can do that'll put less pressure on the sensitive soul ;)

This makes me so glad to already have sexual experience! I would hate to be engaged to someone, building up expectations of how amazingly romantic and emotionally fulfilling sex will be, and then discover that me and him are completely incompatible on that arena. Sure, sex is only a bonus to a relationship, but I still feel like there has got to be the right amount of sexual chemistry and experience so you can enjoy yourselves together...

Wow. So sorry, OP. I know it's hard not to take this personal, but unless you have tusks growing out of your chest, this is all about him, not you.