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um why did he move out without mentioning the letter? :S
u're messed up big time! first of all: how the f didn't u realize that he was ready to commit? second: thumbs up for the kid. he's prolly trying to tell u that they (u said u got more than 1 kid) need more attention than a bf. i share his opinion. if u're old enuf to have kids, u should be mature enuf to take care of em. (that is also realizing that kids need some stability in their life. if they dont have the father around cause he left/died, that doesnt mean that u should just bring home any guy as a replacement. he shoudlnt have been living there if he was only your bf. they come and go, u know.) if u're not that old, u shouldnt have kids. if u;re not that old, but have kids, GROW UP! to sum up: IDY
Ok, you broke up with him and he moved out in the same day without mentioning the letter? He doesn't share his feelings because he is a man. You need a homosexual: a prancing fairy that wants to share everything about his day with you.
Explain the situation to him. Maybe he'll come back. Then again, he didn't have the balls to propose in person and if your kid hid it, then they probably don't approve or are being a little brat who can't stand the fact that their mom is in love with someone other than their father.
No intention of committing? No emotional communication? WHAT ABOUT THE BLASTED LETTER? You're all kind of harping on this guy, which isn't fair. This was a MASSIVE screw up that came from ONE SIDE of a relationship making assumptions without consulting their partner. Hate to say it, but this seems more like a YDI.
If you're living with someone and you can't see that they love you, that's lack of communication. She has children. She can't have them getting attached to a guy who won't pull through for them or stick around. Yeah, he wrote a letter, but he didn't give it to her. If he left it in a place where the kid found it first, that isn't her fault. If he couldn't have the courage to actually propose, either during the relationship or during the time they were breaking up, she needs to move on. They needed to break up if he just sat there and let her go without asking for a reason or clarifying that he does want to marry her.
And he wrote it just YESTERDAY? And didn't bother to give it to you right after printing it OR print out another copy and show it to you after you broke up with him? What a hilariously ironic coincidence! It's almost as if it were written for dramatic effect.
wouldnt that be more of an FML on his part?
I would hit yo kid.
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He was ready to commit, and you didn't managed to clear things up before dumping him ? Well, you must have messed up the dumping pretty bad to not even give him a hint or a chance to tell you directly he was ready to commit.
ydi for not having sausage rolls for lunch last Tuesday.